Am Really Annoyed

@carolbee (16230)
United States
June 25, 2008 11:07am CST
I am beyond annoyed, I am pissed. I posted a discussion about making an afghan for our new grandbaby which should arrive the end of Oct. or first of Nov. I am proud and excited. I only listed 4 tags on the discussion, knowing a 5th could be added by someone else if they chose to do so. A member decided to list another tag which is titled, "adult content." I am anything but a prude. I can post smut on here and filthy jokes but that's not what myLot is about, in my opinion. I am really turned off with this situation and only because the discussion is about one of our kids and it is not mature content. Why would anyone decide to attach adult content to this disucssion and send me to a place I really don't want to see or be? I am sorry to vent here but want everyone to know what can happen if all 5 tags aren't listed by the member writing the discussion. What's your opinion?
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24 responses
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
25 Jun 08
Hey Carolbee! Calm down, it was completely innocent and the blame goes to mylot's automatic "mature content system". In that discussion you mentioned that you began the afghan before knowing the "s3x" of the baby...that little word, when written correctly, automatically triggers the mature content tag. It wasn't another user being mean or anything. Sometimes very innocent things get tagged just because of the multiple meaning of words. A discussion about Mr. Cheney or having chicken bre@sts for dinner will also get the mature content tag automatically.
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
25 Jun 08
Hi my friend, I have herd about this happening before and some say it is best to type in 5 or 6 different (the max allowed) tags so no one else can have a opportunity to put one in. I can't understand how anyone can see a connection between an "afghan" and adult content.
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
10 Jul 08
Thank you for the BR!
@blackbriar (9075)
• United States
26 Jun 08
It's sad indeed that someone has such a hard stone for a heart to do crap like this. I'm wondering if that's why one of my friend's 2 discussions got deleted.
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@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
25 Jun 08
I don't blame you for being so upset and mad. I also would be. I don't check tags on the few discussions I have started but it might not hurt to do so. I had no idea about the 5 tags so from now on I will do that. I guess there is no way you can remove that tag?
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
26 Jun 08
hi carolbee I have had that happen to me too so I just sent mylot a message about it and they took the tag that offended me off my discussion. someone had had it in for me for some reason and put this tag whining old hag so I let mylot know I did not appreciate someone adding that tag onto my discussion.so just let them know the tag was inappropriate for your discussion.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
27 Jun 08
If I don't hear back from myLot I will again contact them. Wish they had a phone number. I don't have a problem calling them. I'm not real sure who put the tag on my discussions since it happened a second time also. Same tag was placed on 2 discussions. Oh I was mad yesterday but today realize it's not worth it. Thanks so much for responding.
@bubbles89 (122)
• United States
25 Jun 08
Hi Carolbee. I understand your frustration. However, "adult content" isn't always what you may think it is. I had my account flagged to not view discussions with adult content because I was really concerned with what would be popping up in some of them. But when I changed it I realized that it wasn't bad and I've turned it off permanently. I tell myself that if the title of the topic is a little questionable and the preview of the discussion (the first 3 lines) then I don't go in there. Happy mylotting and have a good day God bless
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@sweetdesign (5142)
• United States
26 Jun 08
that is horrible!! How rude of this person. Your discusssion was sweet and about a soon to be arriving member of your family and the precious gift you are preparing for her. Some people got nerve thats for sure.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
26 Jun 08
The same tag is placed on this discussion. Someone mentioned it earlier. Either the member is having a fun time or myLot is making this discussion "mature content" for the second time. I contacted myLot but they haven't responded yet. Thanks so much for responding.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
26 Jun 08
Wow that is terrible. Maybe the person doing this should spend more time trying to post discussions.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
27 Jun 08
It happened again to another discussion. Same tag to the same other member. I do have the member's name so if it continues I will email myLot with the name. I'm not a prude but the discussion I am talking about was about one of our kids. Thanks for responding.
@jillhill (37353)
• United States
25 Jun 08
I have heard of that being done before...or other nasty tags added. I think that's rotten of someone. Just some little no mind having fun at someone else's expense! I dont' blame you for being mad!
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
26 Jun 08
The same tag is placed on this discussion. I didn't put it there! The way to stop it is to turn off the "mature content" and I can do that later today. I am still annoyed. Thanks for responding.
@sid556 (30953)
• United States
26 Jun 08
these people that do that do it to bother you and what better place to really get to you than when talking about a child? some fool with nothing better to do that apparently just randomly attacks innocent people here to get a rise out of them. He/she is probably reading this discussion and loving it for whatever reason. I really can't imagine the thrill in it but then again, I don't really want to get into their heads enough to understand such mindless entertainment.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Exactly right, mindless entertainment is a great description. If myLot placed the tag on the discussion I am referring to, they placed the exact same tag to another recent discussion. I'll block out the mature content so this won't happen again. Thanks so much for responding.
@m0mmy0f03 (364)
• United States
26 Jun 08
omg, you have ever right to me annoyed,pissed off,angery and so much more. You are talking about a blanket for new baby. Who in the damn world would put anything like that? Omg I'm pissed,annoyed,angery, smoke coming out my ears for YOU!!!!
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Thanks so much for being so understanding and concerned. It happened to another discussion after the one I am referring to in this discussion. I do have the member's and this person is not on my friend list. Happens once more, and myLot will know who did this if myLot did not place the tag on the discussion. Seems odd it would happen twice in the same day to 2 of my different discussions. Thanks so much for responding.
@neelygal (1022)
• Bahamas
25 Jun 08
I would be annoyed too if I were you.Some people just dont use the brains that God gave them.I am sorry that this happened to upset you.I hope this problem gets resolved because I noticed another discussion someone posted that was having this same problem.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
25 Jun 08
I can solve it by not posting discussions for awhile unless myLot wants to check it out! Then it will be out of my hands. Yeah I am irritated but will get over it. Maybe the word afghan means something nasty? lol Thanks so much for responding.
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@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Jun 08
maybe you mention a world that is one of the mature content. i am annoyed also before because i am said that my comment has a mature content, as what i've knew mature content is only for ages below 18 but i am 31, how come i am belong to the restricted age that i am 31 already. i post a discussion about this and many users advice me to check my profile and update it to allow mature content. this site is very tough specially on our words.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Yes, you need to check your profile and change it so you can get the mature content discussions. Good luck to you and thanks for responding.
25 Jun 08
Hello my friend, I am so sorry about the sick person who responded to you like that, they should be struck off the site. Don't worry just think of your granbaby and smile. I shall be sending lovely thoughts to you, They are not worth your anger. Love regards to you and your family. Tamarafireheart.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
25 Jun 08
Why thank you so much for the kind thoughts and posting this response. I am over it and will move on with my life. It's very tacky but some people are just tacky..lol Have a great day, carolbee
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@lingli_78 (12821)
• Australia
25 Jun 08
i can understand your frustruation... i also don't want my discussion to be tagged as a mature content if it is not... i just don't understand why people would do that... take care and have a nice day...
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@Carrie26 (1587)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I can understand you being pissed.I would have been too.I cant believe people have nothing better to do than go about posting a tag of adult content when the discussion has nothing to do with it.Hopefully Mylot will look into this and catch the person who is doing this.I have heard of some people putting all five tags in when they make a discussion as so people cant do that.Now I see why.Some people can be so immature.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Still don't know if this tag was placed by a member of myLot or myLot's automated system. MyLot didn't bother to answer me when I emailed them. Thanks for initially alerting me to the tag and thanks so much for responding.
@Gollywog (1092)
27 Jun 08
It must be a very strange person to put that in about your afgan! I read that post? We must have another Trouble maker on board trying to get noticed? They should stand up and identify them selves???? Why spoil this site there are great people here?
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Since myLot won't respond to my question about the tag, I may never find out how the tag got there or who placed it. Guess myLot has grown to be so large, they don't have the time to respond to any questions. If it was automatically placed on the discussion by myLot, I would atleast like to know this. Thanks so much for responding.
@zhuuraan (961)
• United States
26 Jun 08
Man I can see where that'd be very annoying. When I start a discussion though, I always put in all five tags. But technically that could still happen though because if two people mark it mature content then it would outweigh your tags which only had one person put them there, at least that's how I think it works but don't quote me on that. Really sucks though how some people can do stupid stuff like that.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
27 Jun 08
It was partly my fault for not giving the discussion 5 tags. Sometimes I get in a hurry and don't list 5. Thanks for responding with your informative response.
• United States
25 Jun 08
Oh carolbee I am so sorry! Why anyone would write adult content is beyond me. Do you think that someone may have may a slightly adult comment in one of the responses to your discussion and that's why the tag is there? I don't know why that would happen. But I think that if mature content is in a discussion the mature content tag will automatically show up in it.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
25 Jun 08
Someone placed this tag on the discussion. I am not a prude and love a good, smutty joke but this particular discussion was about my daugher and a project I am knitting for her. Has notning to do with someone else's profession, so to speak. Thanks so much for responding.
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25 Jun 08
Hello my friend, You have every right to be pissed off. I dont't understand any indivisonal who do this sort of things, what is goung on in their little mind.If they keep doing that Mylot should struck them of the site. I am so sorry, hope you and your family are fine. Love and God Bless.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
25 Jun 08
If this person wants to offer a service, more power to them just not on my discussion. I am disappointed but will get over it. Thanks so much for responding.
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