How do you feel about your Husbands EX?

@dmcollie (217)
United States
June 26, 2008 1:19pm CST
I was just wondering how yall felt about your hubby's Ex. or if a man would like to answer how do you feel about your wife's ex. Do you like them or do you wish they fell of the face of the earth. I wish both my ex and my Husbands ex would just fall of the face of the earth.
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@sunkissed (4331)
• United States
26 Jun 08
Well to answer this questen. When I get out of a relationship, I am through. So I never bothar with them again, My ex can just fall of the face of the eart as far as I am concerned.And as far as I am concerned my Partners Ex really does need to fall off the earth, she calles him 2 times every day.They are still good friends, I do not like their relationship at all!She needs to go.
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• United States
27 Jun 08
I knew my husbands ex and he knew my ex before we ever got together. My husband and I have been friends for years. I thought his ex wife was nice until they went through the divorce. I still don't hate her for had she not told him to get out we would not be together today. My ex and I have children together so we try to be friendly and nice to one another. There are times I really wish he would fall off the face of the earth becaue he will dissappear for weeks and not call to let our kids know he is not coming so they stand by the door waiting on him to show up on his weekends. He won't answer his phone or anything and I have to watch my kids cry ever time he does that. He has even called a couple of times to say he would be there the next day and then not show up. It is when he gets like that that I really wish he would just stay gone so that he would quit hurting our children. Other than that he is a likeable guy and my husband and I both get along with him.
@dmcollie (217)
• United States
28 Jun 08
Dont you just hate that they say they will be there and then not show. My 8 year old has the same problem.
• United States
28 Jun 08
yes it makes me so mad when they do this to their kids. I am sorry that your 8 year old is also going through that with the father. I don’t get why some men do this to the one person who idolizes them. My oldest son thinks his dad hangs the moon and gets his heart broken every time his dad is a no call no show.
@4ofmyown (1119)
• United States
27 Jun 08
My husband's ex-wife is a difficult person to deal with sometimes. We do have contact because they have 2 children together and we have them on the every other weekend schedule and once during the week. The biggest problem we have had is that she and her new husband run their house and raise the children alot differently than we do. They have alot more material things, have a huge house and need to "keep up with the Jones'" In our house we have what we have!!! I have 4 children from a previous marriage...so together we have 6. My 4 are here all the time and appreciate the things we have and know to be thankful and gracious. His 2 children expect everything and look down who doesn't have or live like they do. Well, that would be us. It has gotten better over the past couple of years and his 2 kids are getting old enough to realize that things are a little different in our house and just because Mommy said we aren't as good as they are...they are making their own decisions and realizing that that might not be the case. I hope this wasn't too confusing...sorry for running on...kind of like venting!!haha
@dmcollie (217)
• United States
28 Jun 08
Dont worry you sound like my sister! She has two kids from a previous relationship, and Her new hubby has 3 from a Previous Marriage, So she goes thru that anger with his 3 every other weekend also. But they are still young so hopefully when the get older they will treat her better and realize the hardship that they are going thru.
@wendyloo (184)
• France
26 Jun 08
I have not seen my ex for years,never paid for the upkeep of his children ,then he married a nutcase and was stopped visiting rights,,I have to admit that my biggest mistake was to marry at 19 to someone like him. My husbands ex gave us a terrible time,she would phone for little jobs to be done and to collect their daughter earlier or later or whatever,,in the end I said either act married to me or move back there. This seemed to sort things out. But in answer to your question ,,,there should be an island somewhere called EXLAND. It seems if the ex has not got a partner they still have the right to their old one,maybe if they were altogether maybe they would suit one another LOL
@dmcollie (217)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Oh I like to have an island called EXLAND. LOL
@walijo2008 (4646)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Well my husband's ex is all right, we don't ever see her, she don't ever call him or come around, in fact she moved away, so we don't have any problems with her. But my husband does have a crazy ex-girlfriend, that he was seeing before he met me, I think they were together a year. Sometimes she comes to his work and brings her kids to see him, they aren't his kids, but he said he liked them when they were going out, and he likes to see them once in awhile. I don't have a problem with it but she's getting to where she's coming by there all the time, after they broke up, she kept coming by his work and he finally got it thru to her that it was over, and that he was marrying someone else. He said she took it hard, but she finally quit seeing him, until now, she's been coming around again. I trust my husband, I know he loves me, but I don't trust her, he does tell me tho if she came to his work or something. I don't think I would want her to fall of the face of the earth, but I would want her to go somewhere other than here...lol.
• Turkey
27 Jun 08
LOL...Well, thank goodness he has no contact what so ever with her and she's in Illinois and we're in Kentucky. I really don't feel much for her but she was awful and she did him really wrong. I remember when we were still living in Illinois and he was working at a grocery store there, she was at the register and she he was stocking shelves and she was talking to the cashier about him and how he was cute (He had his back to her and I guess she didn't recognize him). Well, the cashier told her that he was married and she said "Oh that's ok, I like married me." Meanwhile, my husband had been listening to the whole conversation and he had glanced back quickly without her noticing and realized it was her. So, when she said that about married men, he stood up and turned to her and said "I bet you do" and then left her standing there LOL... In any case, I knew I didn't have to worry about her after that ;-P
• India
27 Jun 08
I am not married but can say feelings about having of Ex husband or wife but we should not care about such things and try to not to get our fiancee divert in it
• United States
26 Jun 08
My husband has 3 ex-wives. Fortunately he never had any children and none of them live in our area or have our phone numbers. I don't think any of them would be a problem anyway. He said that 2 of the splits were very amicable and the third wasn't amicable but very final. I had never been married before and have no children either but I have had a couple of long term relationships. None of my ex-boyfriends come around or bother us so all in all we've both been very lucky in that respect. I've seen some of my friends who have been hounded by their ex's for one reason or another and it's not a pleasant situation for anyone. I hope your situation gets better in time. It sure can be stressful on a relationship.
@trell8402 (274)
• United States
26 Jun 08
I'm his first wife, but I wish all of his ex girlfriend would fall into a pit and get covered in dirt. Before we got married, one of them called him and said she wanted to retry their relationship. He told her she was crazy and she had her chance.
@ZephyrSun (7382)
• United States
26 Jun 08
Well my husband wasn't married before me but there was a crazy girlfriend that we have told that if she didn't stop contacting us we were going to have her arrested so yes I guess I would like her to fall off the face of the Earth. They haven't dated for almost 3 years and she knows he is married yet will email him and call asking to meet for "lunch". I am sure that my ex-husbands wife would wish I would fall off the face of the Earth as well. I think that it's just human nature. She hates me and the feeling is mutual she tells my children how much of a bytch I am and a lot of other things. I just try to kill her with kindness because it makes her more mad.
• Canada
26 Jun 08
My husband has three ex wives, and he has children with all three of them. I am his fourth wife. Because the the children, the exes have been in and out of our lives at various times. He has gone through much more with them than my parents ever did in their divoce, so when one of my parents complain I have proof that it could be worse. His exes are fine people AS INDIIDUALS, but as ex-wives, they can get on our nerves at times.