Battered Boyfriend...?

Philippines
June 26, 2008 11:02pm CST
Will you hold on to your relationship if you are a battered boyfriend? i mean your gf hurts you physically and emotionally for the fact that you're giving her everything..you've reached a credit card balance to be paid amounting of a hundred thousand..you give her everything she asks for..your understanding to her unreasonable confrontation to you..every little thing is an issue to her..you're fighting everyday...but you're staying because you always says that you love her..but is that really enough?..that you love the person?Help the guy to make up his mind..
4 responses
• United States
27 Jun 08
If a person is in an abusive relationship, male or female, the best option is to get the hell out of it. It sounds as if you have a spoiled child on your hands and to just deal with it for love or whatever is never the answer. you need to preserve yourself and worry about yourself, meaning MOVE ON since if you are a decient guy then you will have no problem finding someone more deserving of you. Good Luck and SAVE YOURSELF!!!!! Have a great day!!!
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
yeah I agree..he's a good and talented guy..he deserves someone better..tnx..hope he'll realize these things.
• United States
27 Jun 08
I agree with you! spoiled brat. How much can she love him if she is doing this? Last I knew you do not hit people you love. You learn that as a toddler. I would me asking myself if she really loves me or the money. No one deserves to be hit. The bad part is if a man sticks up for himself he gets in more trouble. I do not think you can love someone that hits you. I think you would grow more resentful everyday.
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
Yeah,the guy's very talented. And actually too "beautiful" to be a guy, appearance - wise. Lately he's been getting a lot of fresh scratchmarks in his arms and according to him,"he's lovin it.." ..what a pitty..
27 Jun 08
Okay...DOes this guy ever asked his gf why she's doing that? I ouldn't imagine a girl hitting her boyfriend! But I salute the guy for all the patince that he's giving his gf but too much patience and too much love won't do you good believe me!
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
I know this guy too (for the fact that she's talking about my officemate,lol) ..the girl's kind of..sadistic in nature. She's the weirdest one in our office. But that's the power of love; or, stupidity in disguise.
@pillusch (1148)
• Mexico
28 Jun 08
There are always two sides to a coin. You can not batter somebody who at least accepts (needs? enjoys?) to be battered. The whole thing sounds like a pathological relationship to me, and I'm saying this because I assume that your question is academic. If not, GET OUT, man. This thing is going to end sooner or later, anyway, and you migh as well stop it now.
@ch88ss (2270)
• United States
27 Jun 08
so sorry, can't give up positive or good advice. I am going through a set of relationship problem too and can't decide what to do. but it sounds like you need to get out. Can you imagine yourself living pay check to pay check paying for her shopping, and crazying spending habits. I know I can't, I want to make sure my kids are fed and they have roof over their head. Can you see if she will change, unless you are a millionaire, then don't waste your time with her.