he doesn't love me me anymore

Philippines
June 27, 2008 5:23am CST
I was on my first year level in high school when i got madly in love with a guy.He courted me because he likes me .But because of young age i did not accept the courtship and i did not answer him.yet,he still continued courting for almost 2 years.When i am about to answer that i like him too one of my friend told me that he already had a girlfriend and they're on for almost a year.Oh My Gosh!!!!!! sad!But i have to accept the fact .that was my fault also .well i realized that he doesn't love me anymore. and that's life....It's okey
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4 responses
@yullar (129)
• China
27 Jun 08
Hi here my friend,that is real life, but you connot say that was your fault. Nobody was fault,because you are both young.Even if you answered him,are you sure you will be together for ever? Nobody can assure that.So what you should do is let nature takes its course. Maybe next second you will find your real love,maybe somebody other is waiting for you at sometime and somewhere.Let the all past be past.Goodluck girl.
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
THANK YOU FRIEND fOR THE INSIGHT... bY THE WAY .....HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED THAT TOO??? WELL jUST ASKING.... ....tHANK YOU SO MUCH
@chej18 (915)
• United States
27 Jun 08
Hi applerose, Love who cannot wait is just a temporary love.if he cannot wait for you that means his love is not that deep and he is just sdoring you.Then that mean he doesn't deserve you. You can still find somebody else who will adore you and love you deeply w/out asking in return and he cant wait what ever how long you ask him to wait.It is better that it happened already before you take him as a boyfriend. Time is so important and precious to waste to somebody who doesn't deserve too.You dont have to be sad and feel bad about it.If he saw you someday doing fine and he will realized how much he is sorry about it that he cannot wait and fall out inlove like that.But in the other side if you really love him you should tell him what you feel and move on atleast if thats bothering you.have a good day my friend, Take care your self... Greetings from Che!
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
,,hI fRIEND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE RESPONSE
@subha12 (18441)
• India
27 Jun 08
It was obviously your fault. still i can't blame you all. you took your time. what made you understnad taht you still love him? may be he gave you sufficient time but you did not reacted.
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
yeah i admit.. that was my fault.from the start i knew and felt it that i really love him.I consider him as my first love.Hope he will be happy with his gF.
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
Well it's ok to be like that at all you have some reasons before that I think was valid. The mistake perhaps on your part is that you did not relay it to your suitor you reason why you have to suspend your decision that long. Maybe if he had known it before he could have waited for you. But now it seems too late, time to moved on with life at least you know where you are right now and learned from it then you are ready pretty soon to ope your heart to others again.