How Would You Feel If A Loved One Betrayed You?

@eihdra (3116)
Philippines
June 27, 2008 11:27am CST
It's different when someone you love betrayed you. It hurts so bad and you are torn into pieces. There are many questions which needs to be answered. What could you have possibly done to deserve it? Why did they do it? What made them do it? If it happens to me, I would be really mad and would confront the person. I could maybe forgive but it would definitely take some time to forget it. My trust has been violated and broken. It would take time to heal. What would you feel if this has happened to you? What would you do?
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4 responses
@ayessa (1584)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
It was really a painful thing to be betryed and specially if it was your loved one. I had experienced it and its really aweful thing that happened to me. I had lots of questions to him and to myself but I can't able to find the answers all by myself so I decided to confront hima and asks why. And even if you already have the answers it was really hard to believe and understand. You will be at the denying stage but know what I have learned from it? Better leave everything behind and let to of everything if you can't bear the pain of being with him. That was what I do and now I am much happy.
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• United States
14 Jul 08
I can relate to everything you said because i've had the same thing happen to me and agree to leave everything behind and move forward beause you'll be drowning with depresion.
@lishiwei (1551)
• China
27 Jun 08
That's really a sad thing.I hope that don't happen on both of us. I think it will very hard for us to forgive her or he and it will make us upset for a long time.
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@eihdra (3116)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
thanks...
• India
27 Jun 08
it is really a very dificult situation to handle,there doesn't happene the balance between mind and bdy.nth seems gd,food,weather,games...all gts lost.but ya life shud go on,and one gradually comes out of the situation and life become normal.bt some sentimental song or souation again can start that feeling which is really too pincing.its life it happens..we shud enjoy this too
@eihdra (3116)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
thanks for dropping by..
• United States
14 Jul 08
This has happen to me also and it did all the above and i was really mad but more hurt than anything. Beause i couldn't belive that someone whom i love unconditionally and gave my all to could even be so decieving. Then i forgave him but the thought of him betraying me stayed in the back of my mind so the trust that i had wasn't there anymore and i can't get past this part of the relationship. And you know what they say about trust in a relaionship, "If there is no trust there is no relationship, because you can't give your all