How you expect your spouse to be

The idealistic girl in me likes a slim, good-looking, healthy and wealthy guy. However, I don't really often strike it gold with wealthy men so far because I don't like how they're too forward with me. So I guess I'll stick to the not wealthy one but who's hardworking and intent on getting rich someday.

to me,marriages are made in heaven. this is an ancient indian saying.you get what you are destined to get. so you should have least expectations.you ought to adjust. for me, i just expect her to be a girl who cares for me and my family.

Neither my husband nor myself were "slim" when we met. I worked for minimum wage at an assisted-living facility, and he wasn't making much more than that, either. Since then, I've had our son, complete with weight gain and stretch marks. While I was pregnant, my husband also gained weight. Our son is 3 now, and we still don't have much money! So slim or fat? I love him either way. Pretty or fair? We're both decent-looking, if a little overweight. Healthy or wealthy? Definitely healthy, cause there's no wealth at all! Above all, the traits I value more than any other in my husband--faithfulness, loyalty, trust, kindness, and LOVE. I wouldn't care if he was fat, ugly, or broke--he's mine, and I wouldn't change it for anything in the world.

I never limited myself by deciding that my husband must be handsome, slim, wealthy, etc. I knew that my soulmate would come along, but I had no idea what he would look like. I care about what a person looks like on the inside, not the outside. The saying "You can't tell a book by it's cover" is very true! My first husband looked very much like Johnny Depp!!! True! But he was a very evil person on the inside, which he didn't show me until after we were married with a baby on the way. My current husband isn't a handsome man (not ugly, just kind of plain), there is nothing outstanding about him except who he is... he is responsible, caring, loving, funny, unselfish, etc. If you decide that your spouse will be slim, then along comes the perfect person for you EXCEPT that they are heavy, you could possibly be missing the most perfect relationship you could imagine. I had a boyfriend once who constantly mentioned his love of dark-haired women. He said it so much, that he wasn't my boyfrienf for long! I got so tired of hearing it, and it hurt, too.

Yes I am. My wife body is the one that can be fat or slim depending on her. When she get pregnant for our first baby, she eat so much and started coming big, and I was expecting that, and when she started a diet for sometime, she recover almost the 50% of her body fat, so becoming slim a bit, but right now she started coming big again. I guess there is really a human body that cannot be fat or slim, but remains the same at all times.See, many thin people wanting to increase their size but they could not, though they have tried so many vitamins,the same thing with big people who is wanting to become slim but still they don't have success.

i dont care as long as i love him

I expect him to be himself. It doesn't matter what he looks like or how rich or poor he is. Size is not important either. When it comes down to it it's what that is inside that matters most.

I expect him to be faihful and loving and sensitive and caring I also expect him to love his children and care for them. He does all that im lucky it doesnt matter how much money he has or what he looks like I love him for who he is not what he is