will u give a chance 2 ur partener if he or she cheats u

India
June 27, 2008 11:56pm CST
well nowadays 70% of men n women have a relationship outside even now a days girls n boys have more than 1 gf or bf .But if u dont know n never knew things r fine wht if somedays u come 2 know ur husband or wife or gf or bf is cheating on u .May be ur doing the same but wht will u go through wht if ur faithful 2 him no matter wht happened .Wht will u do .Wil u give him a chance or u will never forgive him wht he or she has done 2 u .I think every body must have their own point of view on this n not just by heart before saying something u should listen 2 ur heart 2 so plzzzzzzzzzzzz do tell me wht u feel waiting for ur responce .........
3 responses
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
28 Jun 08
I think it would depend on the circumstances under which my partner would have cheated. Also the question of forgiveness comes if my partner is really sorry about the actions and I know for sure that it will not happen again.
@donsky14 (5960)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
yeah I agree with that...if he would be really sorry for what he did and he would really change, then I might forgive him.
@kalass (611)
• India
28 Jun 08
Putting myself in the situation u have given, at the moment i come to know my partner was cheating on me i would become very furious on her( i am a boy) and would decide not to even talk at her for the rest of my life...If my partner understands her mistake and ask me to forgive her and is stubborn not to give up on me till i forgive her (this is wat my gf does when i get angry on her) then i shall really try to forget the past and begin a new life with her without any with the same belief i would have had if she had not cheated on me... i think love is about belief.. so even after such a n incident if lover want to live together they have to forget wat happened and have to have the same full belief on each other...
@donsky14 (5960)
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
This is what I always fear in relationships...the cheating thing. I've always told my boyfriend that I MIGHT not able to forgive him if he cheats on me. I mean, I did everything, gave him everything and love him with all my heart...and his just gonna cheat on me? -if he will- then thats just crap. But, on the other hand...I feel like all relationships actually go through this stage. And its just like a challenge in a relationship...and its up to you on how you will handle it. For now, I might say that I might not be able to forgive him...but I know for a fact that, that may change. Cause I love him, and I'm not yet in that situation...so I'm still not gonna be able to have a final say unless Im in that situation already...which I hope I won't experience.