June 28, 2008 9:36pm CST
Have you ever experience that when you do share your ideas, other tends to mimic you? Well. I had that kind of experience. I do say something on a meting here in our association (the place where I live) of an idea since it is indeed open to everyone. This one neighbor of mine rend to mimic me evrytime I open my mouth and say something. I really lost my temper and ask her the reason behind. She said that we have the same age. And she is only 1 year older than me. There was really a confrontation happened betwwen me and her. The officers of our place was really shocked how can she be only 1 year older thanme. That her oldest son was of the same age of one of my younger brother who was born when I was only in grade 4. And that time I was only 8 years old and she already 28. She can be my mother already since our age gap was really that big. Actually she is seperated to her husband for reason I don't want to know. What really kills me is that how can we on the same boat, just imagine the age. She have 2 sons , the younest is even older than my youngest brother. I don't really know how to communicate with her since that is her way of thinking. I guessed she's really sick and out of her mind.
29 Jun 08
The most common sign of insecurity is being negative to the opinions of others. Well, I think your neighbor has a personal problem that's why she is acting that way. Maybe you need to understand her. She maybe has so much frustrations in her life and that's her way of nursing herself which is very annoying to others. Anyway, just leave her alone, don't mind her. It is not worth of your time.