tips for brushing a toddler's teeth?

United States
June 28, 2008 9:37pm CST
Normally I brush her teeth and then she brushes them. Lately she won't let me get near her with the tooth brush. She brushes for a long time but I don't know if she is getting her back teeth. I have been trying "tricks" and bribery and nothing is working. Maybe my bribes aren't good enough. haha. Does anyone have any tips?
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
29 Jun 08
Does she understand swish and spit? If so, you can buy her the pre-brush stuff that is made for kids. They swish it around their mouths before brushing and it turns the tartar blue (or whatever color you buy). That way you know if she got all the spots and it is a guideline for her as well. It is normally found in the mouth wash aisle. I believe the one I bought for my son is made my Listerine.
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• United States
30 Jun 08
No she tries to spit but I know she swallows a lot. I am going to look into that stuff for my son though. Most of the time he brushes his teeth. He does a pretty good job. About once a week I make sure I do a thorough brushing just to be sure.
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@guss2000 (2232)
• United States
2 Jul 08
You know, my son doesn't get the spitting thing down either. I've been careful not to let him swallow too much.
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@guss2000 (2232)
• United States
2 Jul 08
We just recently started brushing my son's teeth. He has major issues with anything inside of his mouth, and for a while would not even eat food. I've been trying to put a little tooth paste on his brush and the last few times he's actually opened his mouth. He gags alot though because he don't like it too much, but we are working with him trying to get him used to it. I'd like to read some tricks that anyone has as well.
• United States
3 Jul 08
I think I read in another discussion aout your son and eating. We have been brushing her teeth since she started getting them in. Not too often in the beginning just because I wouldn't remember. haha. Her back teeth are really grooved. I guess that is a good word and I can see many cavities finding a home there. I could also see how brushing a gaggy toddlers teeth could be the last thing on your list to do. Good luck with brushing your sons teeth. Parenting can be so hard and frustrating sometimes.
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@guss2000 (2232)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I also have this little cloth thing that you put on your finger to like wash their teeth. I haven't really used it. I might start though, that might help him getting used to putting things in his mouth. We still have issues. He also DOES NOT chew... still mashes his food. We are working on it though.
@Gemmygirl1 (2867)
• Australia
29 Jun 08
My daughter doesn't like brushing her teeth unless she uses my brush so i went & bought an identical brush to mine so she does her teeth & thinks she's using my brush! We always brush teeth together & in the shower (she wont use the bath) so everything gets done when it should. Ignore the comment someone said about them ONLY being baby teeth - you don't wanna use that attitude because my sister in law went on that assumption & by the age of 5, my niece had to have every last tooth ripped out - before the rotting teeth went through the gums & would affect the adult teeth. My daughter will let me brush all her teeth except the front ones (top & Bottom) but i just hold her still & give them a quick brush - then i let her have a 'bribe' which is usually just a piece of apple or something that wont undo ALL the good work i've done!
• United States
30 Jun 08
Yeah, I have a couple friends who had to have their kids root canals or teeth pulled because they were so bad. I know she does an okay job in the front but the way her back teeth are, there are a lot of spots that I can see cavities forming so it worries me. I know my teeth aren't the greatest and I think it has to do with when I was little too so I want to make sure they grow up knowing good habits.
• Australia
29 Jun 08
I have three girls close together, they all brush their teeth together and compete with their brushing styles! The way I got them started is that we have a song to brush our teeth with and they have heaps of fun frothing at the mouth while they sing and brush - its all about fun! I also get them to have a go brushing their teeth and then their dolls teeth and then their teeth and their dolls teeth. I also tell them how lovely it is to see their shining white healthy teeth throughout the day. I like to pretend their white teeth are blinding me when they smile at me - they love that game! I won't play it until theyre teeth are brushed and brushed well too! You could also take turns brushing eachothers teeth - my kids think its funny when they have a go of mine and make the toothpaste run down my chin! Realise as well that this is probably a stage and wont last together - don't make it a stressful occasion but a fun one instead!
• United States
30 Jun 08
Brushing each others teeth is a good idea! I haven't thought to try that. Thanks so much! Going to try it tomorrow.
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
29 Jun 08
Dental hygiene is important however, don't forget they are just baby teeth so let her enjoy her brushing. At least she has the right idea about oral hygiene. You have given her a good start. My daughter did the same thing for a while when they were little and it was just a phase so I let them get through it and then they finally allowed me to "help" them brush their teeth.
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• United States
30 Jun 08
Ie been trying to be paitient and try different things but I don't want her to have teeth pulled or something if we go too long and she gets cavaties.
• United States
29 Jun 08
My son wont let me brush his teeth either. He used to just suck the toothpaste off the toothbrush. Then I started to brush me teeth with him and he would copy what I was doing.
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• Australia
29 Jun 08
Oh yes I believe that you should lead by example and that is the best way to get any child to do what you want. If they see you doing it they are more likely to do it too.
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• United States
30 Jun 08
I dont have a problem with her just eating the toothpaste but we only give her a tiny bit. She does brush but won't let me assist her at all.
• United States
15 Jul 08
My daughter went through this stage twice. Once when she was about two years old. And then again this year. The first time, we got her Elmo DVD where he learns to brush his teeth. And then she started brushing again. This year when she turned refused to brush her teeth again. And nothing worked. Not treats or logic. Nothing! We told her about cavities and everything, but nothing worked. Then her bottom tooth fell out. And ever since then she has been brushing her teeth two or three times daily with no problems. Turns out her mouth was sore cause she was about to lose a tooth and her teeth were hurting. And she never told me. With kids there is often no way to know when they are teething or about to lose a tooth unless they complain of mouth pain. The big sign for us was that our four year old kept chewing on stuff like a baby does. You might try a really super soft brand new kiddie toothbrush with her favorite cartoon character on it. We got the Spongebob brush and she really loved that. Maybe your daughter will let you check for loose teeth. And try lip gloss. That is my bribe and it always works! I use ELF and my daughter loves it! Best of luck! Beauty Queen
• United States
15 Jul 08
It may just be a sign of her getting her back teeth. My daughter use to be like that so i just laid the toothbrush where she could see it and let her walk around the house during the day with it. Now she is so excited at night time because we brush her teeth and she gets to watch herself in the mirror.