Whether a man should marry a girl he doesn't love.

China
June 29, 2008 11:41am CST
I have a girlfriend, while I don't love her. I didn't reject her when she tried to be my girlfriend just because I don't want to let her dismay and sad. Now I have found that we have a lot of problems in the recent year. Whether I should keep the stituation or break with her. I don't want to hurt her, that's the prerequisite. Since she is so kind and she loves me so much.
3 responses
rmuxagirl
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I don't think you should be with someone that you don't love! Just because you don't want to hurt her doesn't mean that you should still be with her. In the long run staying with her when you don't love her.
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
30 Jun 08
i is better to tell her the actual feelings. nothing can be made it right. its not good to live life with someone whom you do not love at all. at some points life can't be just compromise.
anujain75
@anujain75 (1059)
• India
29 Jun 08
I think somehow you love her.Otherwise you cannot make her your girlfriend.If you do not love her than you can make her your friend.Now there is problem in your relationship but you do want hurt her.I think you really love the girl. My suggestion is talk with yourself when you are alone whether you will marry her or not. What your inner concious says do that.Because it comes from core of heart.Inner concious cannot give us wrong decision.