Help,Is it love?

@ifglan (1152)
China
June 30, 2008 8:13am CST
Hi,friends,before,i love my boyfriend very much,but now i don't know how my feeling to him.Maybe you can read out and tell me,thank you. We have been together for almost two years,and we never quarrel,we are working in different city,about two weeks ,we will see each other,and have fun. But this time,he comes to see me,i just find boring with him,i don't feel happy with him like before,i just take it easy,he comes and goes,why?To tell you,i have no other lovers. What's more,when he goes ,i will miss him so much,but why i feel not so exiting when we are together. Am i loving him?I miss him much when i am posting this discussion?I'm so complex .. :(
1 response
omobaorun
@omobaorun (74)
•
30 Jun 08
I want to believe you love him,from your statement but the truth is there is somrthing ab out him that you don't like and which you've refuse to let him know about it,so whenever you see him,that thing come up and make you wishing of not seeing him. I guess the 1st thing to do is for you to look inward you and tell yourself the whole truth about what you LIKE AND DON'T LIKE ABOUT HIM, and try to talk to him about your findings and how you wished he can change those bad aspects and if he truel loves you,he'll change then your 1st love will return. BEST OF LUCK.
1 person likes this
ifglan
@ifglan (1152)
• China
30 Jun 08
Omobaorun,you are so bright,every guess you said is really true!What a person you are! Thank you!Yeah,i'm not with him,i'm missing him so much,but if he comes,something of him is really bad as you said,for example,he wants to smole and avoid do housework,everytime when i see such a lazy and dirty man,i dislike him...I always think our love can persist to the day we marry with each other,so i take it seriously, and hope he can act well in every field in my eye,if there's so many bad things being seen my my side,i will be mad,say nothing of love. You are right,i should have the faith to decide whether he will be better.And then return to the sweet original. Thank you for your reply.