A girl needs some help from the guys!!
By jolly223
@jolly223 (73)
United States
July 1, 2008 11:48am CST
I am a single 28 year old working on a master's degree in college. I am fairly attractive, i won't say i am barbie doll but i'm definately not the ugly duckling either.
My question is how come guys never ask me out? When i do manage to go out on a date it seems like a matter of time before the guy looses interest and before i know it he's seeing another girl.
I could take this a little easier except that the guys claim they like my size (im petite), my brains and all the other stuff but then they seem to loose me for girls who have a good 100 lbs. on me and barely a high school education. What is it that guys are looking for? Is there something I just don't have? I am completely confused. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks
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3 responses
@supercars (11)
• India
1 Jul 08
All those guys are looking for a One Night Stand.
I am not telling you to do what they want.
I am just trying to tell you that they are not interested in Long Relationships.
Keep Looking. :)
btw 100 pounds is an overstatement. Such girls would be too fat. ;)
@Muelitz (1592)
• Canada
2 Jul 08
Well Jolly, Men have different tastes when it comes to women. Some like voluptuous, some like easy-going and some go for the old fashioned. I believe you when you said you are fairly good looking although posting some of your pictures will help others to believe more lol.
This is the thing. Just wait for the right one to come along. Don't try too hard to get noticed and act naturally even though you are in a date. That way, when someone likes you, he's already seen who you are and would not loose interest after a few dates.
You can panic when you reach 30 and still dont have a steady relationship lol. I am just kidding. Hang in there. There must be a very special one for you, a prince charming mabye :)
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
Every guys have different likes or preference for a girl. Usually, aside from the looks, guys like exciting girls, someone who would thrill them. They would also want mysterious girls, a girl they would be so curious about. And they want a girl who would need them, like a damsel in distress.
But you should not be confused. Like I said, all guys are different. You will in time find a guy who will like you just the way you are.
