My husband cares more about his family than about me (his wife) and our son.

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My husband always puts me last and puts his family first. At the beginning I thought it was a coincidence, but now is happening so often, and my needs are so behind...We are going to divorse and still he does not want to change. He left me living with our son and my brother in law (my husband's brother) in a house alone, and he is in an other town, helping his parents with their job. He left his own job, to go to help them with theirs. We have problems like this since we married two years ago.He always says that he cannot do otherwise, but also blames me that I complain about it. I don't want to divorse, but he leaves me no choice. Since we married we never had privacy, we never lived alone in our own place, and most of the time we are not together, we don't do things together, we don't even make love, I want an other baby...He does not disagree with the things that I want us to do, just he cannot find time because he is busy taking care of his family's troubles and worries. I don't feel that I am family with him....he is more "family" with his own family. He does not even put our son first. As a mother I cannot accept this. I am very frustrated, I love my son so much, that I think it will be better if we divorse now that he is 2 years old, and he will not understand a lot of things, than to stay married with this man, that doesn'r put as a priority to his life his own son, and then his wife.