What do you miss most about your loved ones?
By richiem
@richiem (3644)
Philippines
July 1, 2008 9:00pm CST
The thing I miss most about my girlfriend is the tight hug we share in the times when we are together, especially when are sleeping. I feel secured and loved and cared for when she hugs me. She said she also likes and that it is her favorite moment.
What about you? What do you miss most about you loved ones? Is there a favorite thing you both enjoy doing?
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10 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Jul 08
I guess it will be everything.. ALl the moments shared as a couple will always be special and unique and memorable, as the same feelings can never be achieved twice with another perosn.. SO it will be everything for me.. hehe

@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
Yes, I miss all the moments I have with her. But there is always some moments that you will miss more. In case, it is the time when we are going to sleep. It feels like we have no care about the world, the problems, and anything that is not good to the mind.
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
2 Jul 08
Hello, Richiem.
What I miss most? Is when I am with my girlfriend... She will just listen to all I have to say, and I'll listen to all her ideas, and we both are happy listening to each other. My family doesn't want to listen to me, but she does it with an open heart. I feel safe with her. I feel warm, I feel great. Now, I will only see her once or twice per week at maximum, and I'm sad because of it, but I'm sure that after this vacation we'll be back together. She is still my girlfriend, but she found a job at a Shopping and she'll work six days of the week until the end of the vacation.
Respectfully,
Munhozmib.
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
7 Jul 08
I see it. Just don't tell me that your girlfriend quit her job, because if she has done so then we are the same person!!!
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
I guess we are somewhat alike. I am much more closer to my girlfriend than that of my family. I can tell my girlfriend everything I want to tell her, things I can't tell my family. I only see her on weekends as she has a work in Manila, some 20kms away from Batangas. Now she also works 6 days a week so I really miss her.

@tholitz (1127)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
Absolutely their companionship. When my parents and two brothers had migrated to the USA, we don't have the usual regular communication and gathering that we used to do. Here in the Philippines, family are bonded so close that children stay with their parents home even though they have their own family. Though we still keep our contact to one another through telephone, I think nothing can compare and replace the joy and happiness of being close to one another. I miss the simple talk that we have and the precious moments that we shared every time of the day.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
I guess that one of the astonishing qualities of us Filipinos. But sadly, I don't think we have that in our family. We don't have a lot of conversations in our home. I guess because I only see them at night. At weekends, I go to my girlfriends house so I have no time to spend with my family then. We don't talk very much in the family. I guess because we are all introverts.
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@twistershot (736)
• India
3 Jul 08
I missed from my dearest friends caring and sharing some new things, but I miss some smile faces with my wife, almost I just want to see in my whole family to be smile all the time, she get tired in the evening so that it is very difficult see that face with smile, we tryied to refresh our mood some times but it again happen same way after few day. The day will come for me and my family happy smile.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
4 Jul 08
Yes, I also like seeing my girlfriend smile. That is the most happy thought that I could have. And I like making her smile. I hope you can see you wife's smile more. Maybe give her something to smile about even when she is tired like massaging her back. I do it to my girlfriend and makes her feel less tired.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
2 Jul 08
I guess I would really miss my girlfriend if I have been away for four months. that would be very lonesome, I think. But it would be nice to have an everyday telephone conversation with them. I think it would help.
But I guess cross-country calls is expensive. We have webcams now, so you can still see them. Don't be so sad, you'll be with them soon.
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@steve9737 (918)
• Colombia
6 Jul 08
one of the things that I most miss about my girlfriend is her kisses and to feel his face with my hands, I think every one can miss a lot to their loves ones when they are away, I have missed so much some of my ex girlfriends and I have to waited and wanted them to come back but usually they never have came back, it is really a sad feeling when a person that you love is gone, and then you start just to miss even look at her or just to talk to her, one of the thing that I more enjoy doing with my girlfriend is going to cinema, I always have liked to go to cinema with her and enjoy of a good movie, I know that hugs are really good, that are one of my favorite things and that i miss a lot, I remember once when I went to ex girlfriend for Christmas but we don't was doing well, I was waiting for her to hug me but she didn't do, I don't know why she didn't want to hug me, but after of that we just broke, it was not for the hug because we were having trouble before that, anyway I always missed that hugs, even today sometimes I remember that I have always asked why she didn't want to hugs me at lest it would have be a good goodbye, we didn't fight that night but still she didn't hug me, well anyway you never know how people thinks, so maybe she would have not wanted me to be near of her even for last time or something else, who knows.
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@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
ahw..i missed everything about him..i missed how we talked on the phone..i missed his hands holding mine,his tight hugs,,.I missed the two of us on how we walk together,how we shared some funny stories,how we shed our tears together then he wiped it away..Damn..missed all of these!!










