when is the right time to get married?

Philippines
July 2, 2008 1:31am CST
in god's time... and when i'm financially stable and i do have my own house n lot.many couples tend to separate beacuse of lack of preparedness in their married life. i don;t want my children and wife to suffer... i will do everything just to provide them comfort and stability.
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@idowrite72 (2213)
• United States
13 Jul 08
I think that it is a choice for the couple for when they should get married. I think you are quite the gentleman to have things all in place, but you might find that you will have a woman who would like to build these things with you. She might like to help you to buy that house that you want to have before you are married. Hopefully, you are looking while you are building this future that you want to be in place or you might miss that certain woman who would want to share your life with you. I do think that you being financially stable is important and then the 2 of you can build on that to start a life together.
• United States
2 Jul 08
I think the right time to get married is when yourself is ready for it. I mean if your ready to settle, go for it. I have a friend and he got married when he is 18 years old. i know its too young but he is ready to settle with her. i even told her if she is really serious about it and he keep telling me that yah he is and his ready for what will happen next. thats my opinion i think!
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
2 Jul 08
More than having your goals , if you have a person you already wish to get married to have you taken thier inputs. Plan together work towards it in a certain time frame and then proceed. Dont let a situation come about that you work towards achieving you goal and then find out that the person you are doing this all for does not want to get married.
@chennai_b02 (1735)
• India
2 Jul 08
Your opinion is obsolutly right.. One should get ready for marriage..: The Guy should be ready in the form of Physically, Economically and also mentally.. As for as the girl is concern, she should be preparred her mentally and physically and the economical portion her father will take care.. and also now a days, most of the girls are going for the job, once her educations completed, so, in most of the family, she herself, make it satisfied her need by way of her income.. In most of the houses the parents will not touch the earnings from their daughters, and also save the same for her marriage and the future of their daughters.. For both of them, the can marry, once they will be preparred them self physically, and mentally is very much important.. Under age marriage is not get success fully in the recent days..