July 2, 2008 9:16am CST
Have you ever heard how a wife control here husband until he is powerless to do what his instincts tell him to do and what all men I've ever talked to say they want to do; provide for and please his wife. This is a sad case but honestly a man who has been living with his wife and the wife is the one who is footing all the household bills, leaving the man little to give. Such a woman may be tempted to control him and the household. She might try to curb his spending, since it's her sweat that's earning the money. What will be of a man who is being queen controlled. Will he survived long in this kind of situation, being treated as a little boy who need her supervision.
2 Jul 08
Some men may love it - some may just tolerate it - others may run. It depends really if she bullies or abuses and also if she secretly wants him to be strong and "fight" her for control. It is a bit sick but some relationships thrive on this kind of struggle.