wnat is your feeling if your most trustful friend betray you? any idea?

China
July 2, 2008 9:24pm CST
maybe many people have met this problem before.yesterday, i read a book which says this topic about a friend's betraying.but i have not met this before...so i want to lnow some opinions on this from other people on mylot. then what is your feeling if your most trustful friend betray you? thanks
7 responses
3 Jul 08
this something so hurtful...especially if i'ts your bestest friend you have...but sometimes even if they have hurt you, thre's 2 reasons for me: 1.either he's angry at you for doing something hurtful to them too. 2.or he/she is trying to create a fight.... but it's really hurtful you know...
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• China
3 Jul 08
thanks for your respondence.regards
@T3hG33k (215)
• United States
3 Jul 08
This has happened to me not once but twice. I am terrible at holding anger towards people though. At first just extreme anger but after a short period of time I was at the point where I would even be willing to be friends with them again. I have to remind myself that as great of a friend as they seemed if they betray me once they will betray me a million times. A true friend will not betray you. Keep in mind both cases were major, one legal and the other family related.
• China
3 Jul 08
thanks for your respondence. best wishes
• Indonesia
3 Jul 08
hi successlog, I think most people would very less expect this situation. a true friend would never betray us, I think most people who put their friends in their heart and consider their friendship as true one, they would also hope that their trust would never be betrayed, and vice versa. so, when our most trustful friend betrayed us, of course it would hurt us very much. for most people, this would erase their trust upon the former friend completely for the rest of their lives. even when they said they would forgive that person, still ... the feeling / trust upon the person won't be the same any longer.
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• China
3 Jul 08
thanks for your respondence. my friend. i agree with you a lot.i hope we all get on well with our friends. good luck
• China
3 Jul 08
after the pain just try to forget the guy ,once dose something betray you that means the guy is not your friena already .if the guy treat you as trustful friend and knows so do you that i trust no one do betray to a best friend ,it's not sense to treat a disloyal guy as trustful friend .
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• China
3 Jul 08
thanks for your respondence.regards
@LarienOB (103)
• China
3 Jul 08
i have seen somebody endure the friends who betray you ,but my friend's friend made her screct public .but i don't think it's a right way . My way is , you must do excellent ,and let him know ,betray me is a great mistake,and make him regret...hehe
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• China
3 Jul 08
thanks for your respondence.rehards
@myahw20 (1116)
• Canada
3 Jul 08
That is something that hurts a lot. Before me and my friend had a fight and she spilled some of our secrets we had. It hurts a lot that's what I could say but real friends can indeed forgive each other.
• China
3 Jul 08
yes, that is great.i think it should be this. if a genuine friend, we should forgive each other,,
@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
3 Jul 08
One of my best friends betrayed me or lied to me when I asked him outright about something that was going on.. I told him that I didn't intend to ever speak to him again if he was lying to me, I found out that yes, he was lying and I never did speak to him again.. He passed away a couple of weeks ago, he was an elderly man, and I am still not sure how I feel about it.. I was so sorry to hear about him being sick but we were very close friends, he and I and my husband, but I can't be sure how I even feel about it.. He hurt me at a time that I thought I could depend on him as a friendd and I can't accept this kind of behavior from a friend.. A really good friend will not betray a you..
• China
3 Jul 08
thanks for your respondence.best wishes