For Better or for Worse

@Balozi (243)
Kenya
July 3, 2008 2:30am CST
When people marry, they bring into their marriage the things which parhaps made them fall in love. They come in with their childhood, their demons and weaknesses. If these things are allowed to flourish they can kill the marriage. A spouse in the marriage demands from the partner certain rights, recognitions and qualities. When a spouse wins all these demands, they cease to be the man or the woman who entered the marriage. When this happens, the marriage becomes a Torment. When this happens, what would you go for:- 1. Divorce 2. Standoff 3. Face the problem. This things happen frequently in our homes, so give your best in discussion.
2 responses
aprilsong
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
3 Jul 08
i think we all have differences,so do husbands and wives.what is the secret in a happy,lasting marriage?making concession to each other.if we love each other,we should try to understand his or her shortcomings.
Balozi
@Balozi (243)
• Kenya
3 Jul 08
How much joy is in such a marriage? I want to thank u for your word. What I see is that we shall be having more n more coalition marriages. Something like 'since we are already in it and we cant back, let us play tolerance. Thank, it is a gond arguement
raventan
@raventan (61)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
do you think same boy/girl relationship can get married too?
Balozi
@Balozi (243)
• Kenya
3 Jul 08
Unless there is ill motive, such marriages have less evils. Atleast u wont be marrying a total stranger.