How to heal a broken heart???

internet surf, join many profile page and meet many people, chat in chatrooms, play some internet games, and just travel all around the world on the internet and see who you will meet next..

Although it might seem impossible at the moment, you have to tell yourself there are millions of lovely people out there, all ready to meet you. Being outdoors is a good thing when you're feeling down - fresh air and sunshine will do you a world of good. I think it's best to stay away from the computer for a while, as being indoors and alone can add to your miserable feelings. It would be good to get together with good friends - go on a bushwalk or picnic and catch up with people you haven't seen for a while. I hope you start feeling happier soon.

When my then boyfriend-now-hubby and I broke up for 3 months, I had a hard time at first. I kept waiting for his calls, his texts, an email... anything. Eventually, I got tired of moping around. I diverted my attention, my friends were great support group. They kept me company most of the time so I would not be left alone. We ate out, watched a movie, strolled around, etc.I also asked my office to be sent to the province for 9 days for a training to divert my attention. A new place, a new experience, a new environment --even if only for a while. It helped a lot. When I got back home, it wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. Just keep yourself busy. Goodluck!

if you're ready to move on you must accept everything and forget the past. that's all you can do, do anything that makes you busy like hang out with your friends, joining earning money programs in the internet, etc etc... but you know you can easily forget the person who love you even he did something that makes you broken hearted.

You can try blogging or start by being active here in mylot. Do not wallow with the pain and leave them all behind you. In my case, the very moment I say goodbye to a guy, I also say goodbye to everything - pain, joys, etc. Loving yourself first is the first move. If you can afford it (time and money wise), pamper yourself, socialize with your friends and family, travel, etc.

Hi dear!!hmm..we do have d same problem..just like what others have said its really hard to move on when it really hurts u d most..!!when it's almost lost you.!!Hmm..for me..just try not to think of him anymore..(if possible) coz if u only think of him then u really cant start to go on..If you keep thinking & reminiscing about your past it would only hurt you sis!!Start your day with no regrets about losing him..Its not d end of your world..Make yourself busy!!..Have a new boyfriend.!!haha..just kidding.!that's it..if you need some help just try to pm me..ill surely help you with anything!!Keep on posting!!

How long will it last?How long before that empty feelings fade away?Some times you think that you have delt with the pain of the breakup and put your past relationshup behind you ,there still more healing work to be done You try to go about your daily routine,try not to think about itmuch ,but it keeps coming back,sweeping over liyou like a wave-that feeling in the pit of your stomach seek support from your friends and family as you come to terms with the changes in your life.Dont look your past relation as failure but rather as opportunities to learn and improve your relationship skills.Dont worry that you are not in relationship.Your value comes from who you are with Treat yourself to a specual gift now and then ,you are a special person and you desrve it.there's more to life than romantic love.take this opportunity to nuture your friends,family and self. take some time to revaluate what you need in a relationship.be willing to take another chance on love.Like they say you cant win if you dont play.Forgive your partner .This doesnt mean that you are saying what happend is okay.What it means is cutting your losses and not investing any more time in something that hurts you.

Honestly, its really hard to move on especially when you really get hurt. First thing is to divert your attention on something that makes you busy. In my case, I focused myself on my work. I also see my friends more often than before. You can also see a lot of things in the internet. You can gained online friends or a new lover maybe *wink*. Joining in some discussion group like here in Mylot can also divert your attention. You can earn money, you can learn from other's experience, and you can also improve yourself in other things. Just explore.