beautiful friends??

@nut_nut (251)
July 3, 2008 12:40pm CST
how many of you really think beauty is skin deep?? do you get on better with beautiful people or is your best friend the average person? you have to be honest here ;)
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• United States
3 Jul 08
I was kind of an outcast in school, I didn't belong to a clique or club, so as long as someone treated me with respect I took all the friends I could get. I never paid any attention to what they looked like, what kind of clothes they wore, how much money their parents had, etc. I still don't. I have friends of all ages, races, sizes, religions.. well you get the idea. As long as we can get along and treat each other well that's all I really care about. :D
@nut_nut (251)
3 Jul 08
i was like that to, think i was friends with just bout every colour nationality, religion etc. variety is the spice of life as they say lol. and it certainly is, i learnt lots at school. is this true in yr partner do you think? because im afraid to say it but my girl is absolutely gorgious! shes spanish..im not sure i could have a below average looks partner..there has to be attraction..is that bad?
• United States
3 Jul 08
Me and my hubby - I think he's adorable
I don't think it's bad, we can't predict who we are going to find attractive or exactly why. A lot goes into attractiveness, like compatibility, common ground and communication. I dated some incredibly gorgeous guys who I found extremely sexually attractive at first but who were complete morons or so stuck on themselves that it made them very unattractive in a short time. On the other side I have dated some guys who were not so great looking but intelligent, wonderful, kind people.. but I didn't find them the least bit sexually attractive. I got very lucky. I met my husband online. After 3 months of talking by IM, phone and e-mail we were such great friends so we finally decided to meet. I think I was already in love with him, he was such a kind, romantic and generous person with a fantastic sense of humor but since I didn't really know what he looked like I was kind of keeping my emotions under control just in case. He drove 500 miles to see me and the first time I layed eyes on him I said to myself "that's the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with". He was/is overweight, has one eye but to me he is absolutely adorable and incredibly attractive. Not to mention just an all around great guy! Since we were both already pushing middle age, I was 39, he was 44 when we met, we were realistic about our situation. So we took things slow and got to know each other better. He would drive up here to see me once a month and I would drive to his place once a month. After a year we finally decided it was time to move in together and it's been great ever since. I'll upload a pic of me and my honey .
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
3 Jul 08
I will openly admit none of my friends willeverwin a beauty pageant but I dontreally care about that at all. All that matters to me is that they are true friends to me and dont stab me in the back when I need them the most. To be quite honest with you those who are beautifull most of the time are very conceded and dont know what it means to be a true friend. It is very rare to find one who understands the value of friendship.
@nut_nut (251)
3 Jul 08
love yr answer and its so true. do you think its the same with a partner?
• United States
4 Jul 08
Beauty doesn't hold friendships in tact. If you find that it does, then you must not have true friends, right? Looks don't keep the friendship alive, your feelings and personality are what makes a person who they are. I hope that doesn't sound preachy, lol. But it is true.
@onthetop (193)
• United States
3 Jul 08
well me personally feel that skin beauty doesnt matter in freindship ... you made friend because thay understand you , you have common liking or may both of us has intelligence to know each other better .. i think if you beutifull you only attracted but not sure that you become good freind ... its all depend upon person attitude not skin ....
@nut_nut (251)
3 Jul 08
nice answer! my best friend isnt beautiful really but we never stop laughing its great! we never run out of things to say lol. i think some beautiful people are only interested in that or mostly that, so not really that greater relationship between the two of you.