who do you talk to when someone .... you off

@weasel81 (2496)
Australia
July 3, 2008 2:15pm CST
i was at the inlaws yesterday, and my partner was at home, in bed saying he's sick again. it's a long story on the issue, i'm trying to get him up and moving but if he decides that he's sick well there's not much any of can do expect leave him there. his bro wanted him to come over and help that afternoon with some cows, as they were going to start preg testing, and i had to ask what was the reason they need him there so he might get up.all his bro said was he' just needs to come so one can milk, one prg test and the other write the results and find the cows. then his mum had a bit of a go at me cause of it, she's been out of action since hurting her knee and can't help much, i've given up getting my partner to do the preg testing cause he only complains about it. if his mum was there she'd make him do it. so either way i left after that, in a cranky mood. like you offer to help if they need it and sometimes you just get pushed out the way cause someone else is there. like my bro inlaws partner and kids are here at the moment. either way i not happy, i had to work that arvo at my job. then i decided to take the dog and my son out for a walk along the road. felt better by the time i got home. but i've got no one to talk to, with out sounding like a b.... i decided i'm taking the horse out a long ride this morning, that also makes me feel better when you can do something you really enjoy. so the question is, what do you do when you've been put in a bad mood.
4 responses
• Thailand
3 Jul 08
Yeah, concentrate on yourself for a change. Looks like everyone around you just takes you for granted! Stop saying yes to everyone
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
3 Jul 08
i know what you mean half the time it's to keep my partner quite, then he'll get of my back about my horse riding. it's hard to explain, my mum inlaw can be great sometimes but i think is getting very bored with not doing much. i had a go a my partner the other day over something that was more or less just common sense, and had to be done. (i'm not saying what it was) she got cranky at me over it, but you have to use your head sometimes. i get there and have always done things my self, one of my favourite solutions is going out onthe horse and going for a good gallop, which is what i'll do when it warms up in a bit i hope. thanks
@Wizzywig (7847)
3 Jul 08
I go to the gym, for a walk, cut the grass, put on loud music and dance, or drive to somewhere peaceful and listen to music or draw. I think its a blend of working off the energy and feeling like I'm doing something for ME!
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
3 Jul 08
music it the thing i forgot, usually go for my savage garden stuff or something classical. that energy just helps. i've finally charged up my i pod and done a few things to it, so i can take it with me today on the horse.
• United States
4 Jul 08
I just listen to music. Sometimes I can't even walk off the frustration. A long walk just causes me to be winded and sweaty, lol. So there's no real help for me there. The best thing to do is to try and ignore the anger. That doesn't seem so helpful, but what else is there? Punching a hole through a wall doesn't escape it.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
4 Jul 08
Its normal sometimes that we have a bad mood.If ever i have that i never talk to any one at home.I keep myself busy and go to sleep early.On the next day after i wake up my bad mood was gone and change to good.