Can we really accept our bf/gf's everything?

@yenwie84 (1344)
Malaysia
July 3, 2008 6:26pm CST
I always say to myself,never mind,let him be. Is it really alright with me? Or I just pretend to be so stupid? My boyfriend got a very bad habit,for me is considered extremely bad.He hardly can wake up by himself,sigh. Every time I need to wake him up,either through phone calls or his brother. Sometimes I really feel so irritated but what can I do about this? Sometimes I ask myself,maybe this is kind of sickness,so I just tolerate with him,but sometimes I need to fight with my temper too. Anyone know any remedy for this kind of sickness? I tried to use all sorts of alarms to wake him up but after some time,he seemed to be immune with the sound again. Please kindly give advice on this. I really love this guy.
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7 responses
• United States
4 Jul 08
Maybe he's nocturnal, like I am. In which case, you should let him sleep. Us nocturnal people do not like the morning hours. If anything, we sleeop right through them until mid-day. Sometimes even until 4p.m. But that's good! Because we're really active and awake throught the later hours, even into the early morning hours. If he shows better signs of waking up during later hours, he just might be another one of us. ;D
@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
4 Jul 08
You are right! he always sleep after 3am,sigh! But recently there is some improvement,at least he can hear my phone calls.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
4 Jul 08
Gee thats a strange one, he must go into a very deep sleep, but maybe he he has a selective hearing in his slepp because he doesn't want to get out of bed...it must be good to have such a deep sleep in a way....
• India
4 Jul 08
yeah if you love some one truly it doesnt matter whether he/she is good or bad .we care about them a lot even small hings which annoys us we are not bother about it.enjoy your relationship
• United States
4 Jul 08
that reminds me of my boyfriend, he seems like he cant do anything for himmself. i get fustrated at times but then i cant blame anyone but myself for doing everything for him.
@IInsanity (290)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 08
if you love him you can accept his flaws. and maybe if he love you enough he will change for you. =) there's always something that irks me about my boyfriend but i try not to mind so much because i love him and i think it's good that he can love me and love my flaws too.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Jul 08
yenwie84 dont just accept it, tellhim to grow up, be an adult, as adults do not need their mommies waking them up or their girlfriend mommies either. tellhim to put his loudest alarm clock clear across the room so he has to get up and walk over to it to turne it off. he will wake up tellhim to grow up. you are not his mommy.