Boy harrassing and molesting kids in school bus!!!!!

@kwenge (2487)
Kenya
July 4, 2008 9:09am CST
I am mad mad mad about this........My 4 year old nephew told me this innocently and I was terrified about it. He started by saying that there is this boy in grade three, he did this he did that, he slap and beat that......my sister went and complained to the teachers and the boy was warned..........now last night my niece told me that Kim was inserting fingers on the small girl's private parts and she cried, he then inserts his fingers in his a*s then tells the small kids to lick! Gosh I think am running mad and I can kill this boy.......but he is only 7 yrs! What step should we take now? my sister (nephew's mother) is terrified........any advice??
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
4 Jul 08
First I would find out who the little girl is and get in touch with her parents. They have a right to know and the little girl may be to afraid to tell them. Find out from other parents if they children are talking about this. Then I would demand that the school look at the surveillance tapes from the bus with you. They do have them on the buses don't they? next step is to take it to the board. Then the law. Yes the boy is only 7 years old but he needs help and it looks like you are going to have to do every thing to get it for him and protect the other children This boy should have more than warned. This should have been reported to child protective service by the school. The school should have been checking the surveillance tapes after it was first reported.
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
5 Jul 08
Hey deebomb, too bad there are no surveillance cameras on that bus so that will be abit hard. maybe other students will be witnesses. Thanks for your good advice.
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
5 Jul 08
I should have checked to see where your at. Here in the states most all buses have a surveillance cameras on them. That really sucks.
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
18 Jul 08
Just was wondering what is happening with this situation?
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@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
4 Jul 08
This is terrible and a crime, the school's officials need to be notified and action needs to be taken. If he did succeed and did get any of the children to lick his finger after inserting it in himself then those children should seek medical attention because of the risk of contracting hepatitis. I hope this did not happen. This is awful for these children to experience. I don't blame you for being mad, I would be too.
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• United States
5 Jul 08
I have heard about things, like this, and all I can say is that the boy who is doing this to the other kids has to be separated from them and put into prison. The parents have to tell their children that this boy will not be a threat to them anymore. He will be dealt with, and do not put any of the children on the bus until this issue is resolved. Walk with the children to school and consult the instructors if that is what it takes. This 7 year-old boy has to learn the difference between right and wrong, and if that means putting him in prison and punishing him to the fullest degree, then that, sadly, it what must be done. This boy is sick, and he needs to be taken care of by the state.
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• United States
7 Jul 08
I am so glad that I am not a parent because I know that if I was, I would never let this happen to any of my children. Children have the right to go to school and be safe. They should not have to live in this kind of fear.
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@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
7 Jul 08
Hey rogue, thanks for your response. Parents are ganging up to report this matter to police if the school admin is not doing something. There are juvenille cells and this boy should be jailed because he has changed soo many schools because of such habbits.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
6 Jul 08
this child needs to be evaluated by social services he is almost certainly the victim of abuse and this needs to be examined in order for him to be helped, please contact the authorities
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@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
8 Jul 08
Eskarena, thanks for your advice. Also your response is valued. Thanks and happy posting.
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• Malaysia
5 Jul 08
I think if your nephew is same school bus with this boy, will know the school of the boy. I would suggest you go to the boy's school to report to the headmaster. Then discuss with the school bus driver and take care of your newphew. It's so pity to your nephew facinf such incident when such young age.
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• India
5 Jul 08
I think U must report to the school authority as well as to the parent.I think he is victim of odd things.U must conform problem with the child or with the sorroundings he is presently staying. Realyy it is a abnormal behaviour for the 7 yr old child.
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@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
8 Jul 08
hey lenkajyoti, thanks alot for your good advice. I agree with you that this behavior is indeed abnormal for a 7year old. We have reported to the school admin and waiting for their actions. Thanks for your response.
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• United Arab Emirates
5 Jul 08
I feel an immediate action should be taken about this. This is not a normal thing to happen. That kid really need counsellings and that too immediately so that no more innocent kids are affected. The kid's parents should be told and the school authorities should be informed. We should protect our kids from such things. From where do they learn all this?? Are parents not really taking care of kids for what they should watch on tv or what they should talk in front of their kids. It's purely parent's fault. Parents should see what their kid's are into. Take care of kids..
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Jul 08
that child needs help as none of that is the action of a normal seven year old. maybe he is being sexually abused at home and is acting out of having experienced abuse himself. the proper authorities need to be notified of his behavoir and the parents must also be contacted. this is not a typical 7 year old kid.
@Annie2 (594)
• United States
5 Jul 08
First, report it. This is either a really nasty child, or this child is being sexually abused by someone. No seven-year-old does these things without a reason and some knowledge of this type of thing. If he is abused, he might not realize it is wrong. He might think it is normal behavior, especially if it has been going on for a long time. I hope he gets some kind of help. Secondly, why is your child and the little girl still on this bus? I don't care what excuse . . . there's no ride, we have to work . . . there's no ride, we don't have a car . . . get the children off the bus until this kid is off the bus! Find some other way!
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
7 Jul 08
Hey Annie, thanks for your good advice. I think this is the best my sister should do to her son, getting her son off that bus and taking him herself to the school. Maybe this boy is seeing what his parents do. Thanks for your response.
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@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
5 Jul 08
This is disgusting. Did you tell the principal at the school. When you are discussing this make sure that the driver of the bus is there to back you up. This child is out of order and his parents should be brought in and told about his nasty behaviour. Where does a seven year old child get this type of behaviour from. These kids will be traumatised and not want to go back to school. Try and get some links on the other children parents and see if they are also receiving the same complains from their kids too. When you have done this then you can take a strong list of complains to make your cases more fruitful.
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• Japan
5 Jul 08
I feel this is a universal problem growing with the new generation. Probably whatever he does might have been transferred from his parents activities at home. As a child he might had a chance to see s*x activities by his parents or relatives. Or he might have been exploited by some of his relatives or neighbors. This is what he repeats now with others. Please help him by telling to his parents and teachers about this behavior and provide him better treatment.
4 Jul 08
Hello kwenge, How discusting it is ,why don't you go the the school and see the head teacher about and he can get in touch with the boy's mother. It should not be tolerated, where is this little boy seeing things like this done? or someone is doing that to him. Please find out! Tamarafireheart.
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@f45703 (28)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 08
make education to him.....dont be kill
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
8 Jul 08
Heheheheeeeeee this is just funny.
• Nigeria
4 Jul 08
what i think you should do is report the said boy to the appropriate authorities, making them see reason why the boy should be controlled for the sake of the safety of your niece and other pupils of the school and those outside.the boy needs help, because he is going off course the path of sanity. you should not take the law into your hands. If this persists, a withdrawal of your niece from that school will not be an unwise idea.
• Nepal
6 Jul 08
Don't go on a kill man be cool. Tell your boy to watch the movie of brucelee and feed him the energetic food make him strong . Then automaticlaly he goes versus to the demon boy .