do you think there is a perfect age for marriage?

@rave700 (247)
Philippines
July 4, 2008 3:21pm CST
..others would say 30 is the perfect age to get married?...why do you think so..can't you get married at 21 or 25 perhaps...
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@TheCarter (369)
• United States
13 Jul 08
I feel that people should get married BEFORE they go out and experience lots of different things. They should want to experience those things together. That is what deepens the bonds. I feel that a lot of people go out and attach themselves emotionally to all kinds of different people and that is not good. I desire a certain amount of purity in my life and sometimes I wish I had never been with another woman before I got married because it taints me sometimes. "Jasmine did this, Laura did that, Erica would have never treated me like that, etc." If you ask me, the younger the better. Marriage is a life journey and life union that is not meant to be shared or tainted.
@rave700 (247)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
..yup!...marriage should be planned well..and i found it really sacred...
• Canada
4 Jul 08
There is no prefect age for marriage. It depends completely on the couple, and how compaible they are with eachother, and also on how mature they are as individuals. My sister got married at nineteen and it worked out great, I got married at twenty-five and it worked out great, my moher got married at twenty-one, and it did not work out great.
@rave700 (247)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
yeah you're right..as long as both parties could work on each other..and they'll be able to provide something for themselves....
@lightningd (1039)
• United States
8 Jul 08
There is no "perfect age" for marriage. I think that because people mature differently, one cannot say that any age is the perfect age. I do think alot of people jump into marriage because they think they are passing some certain age point and think they have to be married by a certain age, and this causes many divorces. Something I think should be considered is for people to live together for a year before marrying. I think this would cut down considerably on the divorce rate. It wouldn't eliminate it by no means, but I think people would actually discover what they can and cannot accept from a life partner. Some habits are just unacceptable to some people. Just my thoughts on the matter.
@msedge (4011)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I don't believe on perfect age to get married but once a person is ready for all the responsibilities and changes in life and matured enough to handle such things then one should be ready to get married.
@ama1986 (108)
• United States
4 Jul 08
i think for a female is 20 to 26 ,and for a guy 21 to 30
@MizukiZHR (611)
• China
13 Jul 08
no,i think people can get married whenever they want,but above 20.because teenagers can't support families and ofen make choices with no thinking,right? but we shouldn't make a perfect age for mariage.after all,two adults can become lovers must have some reasons,right?so they can choose whether they get married or not,and making a perfect marriage age is reeally useless.