Five Myths That Can Wreck a Mariiage

@roshand8 (1478)
Sri Lanka
July 5, 2008 3:53am CST
ONE - The quantity of time you spend with your spouse is less important than quality TWO - Anger has no place in marriage. THREE - Happily married people never unload personal problems on their spouses. FOUR - Hard time or crises bring marriage partners closer together. FIVE - When all else fails,divorce provides a chance for two people to begin fresh new lives
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• United States
5 Jul 08
You're absolutely right! Any of these would destroy a marriage. All would be certain to kill it! Another myth is accepted by many people I know, and they're so wrong! SIX - only those things you want to tell your spouse are to be shared; secrets keep things interesting. If you married someone you think you can't share everything and anything with, why did you make such huge mistake? Secrets disrespect the person and the relationship, and undermine it in a hurry. I thought of this because a co-worker told me something earlier, and said her husband must never know. It was perfectly innocuous, no threat to her image or their relationship. I can't imagine why she doesn't respect him enough to be able to tell him she admires the way another coworker dresses, and she wishes she were taller and thinner so she could dress like that, too. Weird!
• United States
9 Jul 08
Thanks for the "Best!". I guess you can tell I once had a horrible marriage and now my present marriage is too good to be true.
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@roshand8 (1478)
• Sri Lanka
9 Jul 08
Your welcome.. wishing you a very happy married life.Cheers....
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@AnnaB7 (756)
• United States
9 Jul 08
I think there are many myths about marriage, and I think that if someone is married they should work towards staying together instead of giving up so easy, it is hard to believe that so many people will believe that they will not have a good marriage because of a myths or rumor that they have heard about what will keep a marriage together or will break up a marriage. Hopefully more people will start trying harder to stay married thatw ould be good at least I think so. It is very sad when someone looses their marriage. Divorce it is awful and I know this for a fact because I know so many people who have been divorced.
@roshand8 (1478)
• Sri Lanka
10 Jul 08
Hello Anna,I know some people at least they don't even want to start trying their best to save the marriage.cheers..