What are your opinions on get married because of the baby?

@yenwie84 (1345)
Malaysia
July 5, 2008 5:09am CST
I think now is very common to have such thing to happen around us.Some people think that this is not a big deal anymore,if the girl is pregnant,then the guy (responsible ones) will say "lets get marry". It's alright for this actually.But what are the effects if a couple just get married because of the baby?It's true they love each other,but imagine if they don't have the baby,will they get marry so soon?What do you think about this?
5 responses
@carlysle (271)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
Marriage is not a solution. Its hard adjusting becoming a parent as it is and at the same time both of you will be adjusting to married life... its not easy.. so its never a good idea.. it could create a very hostile atmosphere if it does not work.. make the baby a priority.. then afterwards get married.. one thing at a time.. :)
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
I don't think the marriage will work out well if it only happen because of the baby. A mistake shouldn't be added with another mistake it will only make matter worse. But in this case the baby is the ultimate loser...which is not really good.
5 Jul 08
Becz of this is the comman thing and u can just visit & watch in the Bihar. my opinions should't be marry very early at the time of baby age.
@ettenaej (39)
• Philippines
5 Jul 08
i dont agree of the notion that my bf will marry me because i am pregnant. id rather deliver the child unmarried and still we understand each other and share responsibility to the child. sometimes in this kind of situation a lot of problem will come out coz its like he was force to marry you because of the baby. and sometimes it will be unexpectedly spoken that "if you're not pregnant i wont marry you". more problem will arise and it will end up separation.
@siddiqali (632)
• India
5 Jul 08
Ys they will get marry so soon and this will bring lot of misunderstanding between them.Because i have seen those cases.