how to make the choice?job or family?

@alian818 (112)
China
July 5, 2008 5:44am CST
I am a mother of a 2-year-old girl.I've been studying hard for years to be a good doctor.And I just got a chance to go abroad for training.But I feel guilty because I nearly have no time to be with my husband and my little daughter.I know they need me and miss me so much.Furthermore,My husband had some trouble with his bussiniss lately.what can I do? go to a foreign country for a long time and leave them alone or just stay here?
2 responses
saverio
@saverio (402)
• India
5 Jul 08
Don't get this in the wrong way....but you need to talk to your spouse and discuss it with him.Thats all that matters.Dont take into considerations about friends,other family etc....Just listen to your mind and your husband.
koharukusumi
@koharukusumi (1539)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 08
Hye there alian818, taht is a very difficult choice to make. I guess since you've spent a lot time studying to become a good doctor, you should go for the training and if you think it's hard for your husband to take care of your daughter then maybe you should bring your daughter with you because I think mom look after their child better than dads ( no offense) and women are better in multitasking. Cheers.:D