People Want Other Beliefs Forced On Them

@etnad0 (230)
United States
July 5, 2008 2:48pm CST
I've come to this conclusion after reading countless threads and talking to countless non believers... 1. They complain about Christians forcing their beliefs on them and shoving it down their throat... lol, all the while forcing their belief in evolution or multiple paths on everyone else... 2. They then ask Christians to prove that God, heaven, and ell exists... for people who don't want others beliefs forced on them, isn't that ironic? If God was to pop up in front of you, you would have to accep that He exists... that would be the ultimate form of forced belief... So my question is, if you don't want our beliefs forced on you, why do you force them on us? Evolution, paganism, polytheism, homosexual views (for or against), etc... As long as non Christians are asking for proof, don't get mad if someone says something about what they believe... as long as you are forcing your ideas on us, don't get mad if we respond in the same manner...
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
6 Jul 08
you're damn skippy I'm going to get mad...I DON'T force my path on ANYONE..I DON'T ask for "proof"....I DON'T do any of those things you mentioned so YES I'm going to get ticked off when my wishes arent respected....God COULD pop up in front of me and STILL I wouldnt change my path...I could care less whether or not ANY high power exists, my path is what has been right for me for yrs and that will never change... As for homosexuality...thats a topic all on its own and has nothign to do with religion at all..thats about HUMAN RIGHTS AND EQUALITY...which SHOULD be talked about openly, frequently and so on..When I stand up for Gay rights etc its got NOTHING to do with my personal spiritual path..its got EVERYTHING to do with the fact that gays are just as entitled to the same respect, rights, dignity, acceptance etc etc as any hetero....As much as I realize that for many against it its a religious thing, the bottomline to me is HUMAN rights TRUMP RELIGIOUS rights every time..
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@etnad0 (230)
• United States
6 Jul 08
again, that is something you believe in... so if you have the right to force your belief on others, why can't they do the same? maybe some people don't support gay marriage... i personally, don't care... its a pointless battle, that's between them and God... but maybe some people don't like to turn on the tv and see guys kissing guys and women kissing women...
@etnad0 (230)
• United States
7 Jul 08
you are 100% right and i usually do turn away from guy on guy kisses... or close my eyes... but i'm still a man, so i tend to watch the girls lol... as far as the atheist thing... is there really an actual law for that? can you point me to a website? i've never heard of that law until now...
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
7 Jul 08
but maybe some people don't like to turn on the tv and see guys kissing guys and women kissing women... Very true..but like its been mentioned you can just look away or change the channel...not to mention the fact that maybe ppl dont like seeing a hetero couple have at it..but you dont hear anyone claiming its being "shoved down our throats"..so again it goes back to equality...
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@rpegan (596)
• United States
5 Jul 08
You're generalizing. Non-believers may lump all Christians together at times, but you're doing the same thing here. I may not be a Christian, but I tend to co-exist quite peacefully with people of many different religious paths. Can't we all just get along and SHARE our ideas?
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@etnad0 (230)
• United States
5 Jul 08
i can co-exist peacefully too... and i know i'm generalizing because i haven't met one that doesn't do the same to Christians...
• United States
5 Jul 08
I'm not forcing my beliefs on anyone. I'm happy to believe in what I believe and let others believe what they want to believe. The only time I tell a person they are wrong is when they tell me I'm going to hell for not believing in what they believe. I'm not going to ask anyone for proof here either cause I have heard it all before and it didn't change my views then, won't change them now.
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@etnad0 (230)
• United States
5 Jul 08
your assuming they are wrong and that you are right... correct? isn't that the same exact thing, just reversed? they say you are wrong and you say they are wrong... what makes you any better?
• United States
6 Jul 08
No I'm not but I resent others tell me that they are right. It is my choice and mine alone and I'm good with my choice. It don't single people out with the purpose of telling them based on their beliefs they are wrong. It isn't my place to pass judgment on them but I will defend myself if they come after me over something that is absolutely no business what so ever of their own and I will defend the right of others who feel and believe as I do.
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@etnad0 (230)
• United States
6 Jul 08
the only thing that makes me angry is when people claim Christians are brainwashed because they believe in something that over a billion other people believe in... then they act as if what they believe is a totally original concept that they couldn't possibly have been brainwashed into believing... i'm not saying you... i'm just speaking in general...
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@mmiller26 (1930)
• Canada
6 Jul 08
First, Christians often do force their beliefs down people's throats. You can believe whatever you want to believe, just don't get in my face about it. And don't use YOUR belief system to create legislation to decide the lives of people who may not believe the same thing (in terms of evolution, paganism, homosexual views, etc). Second, God popping up in front of me isn't forcing me to believe. It's providing me with proof. Belief and certain knowledge aren't quite the same thing. I might believe that there is a god, but as long as he remains elusive and up in the clouds, so to speak, I'll just have to take somebody's word for it. If he decided to show up one day, then I'd be like "Well, yeah, he exists. He's over there getting us a cup of coffee so we can have a chat." I don't necessarily want people to believe what I believe, but I do like to debate. And I don't lump ALL Christians together. I'll say "many Christians believe" or "a lot of religious people think", etc. Because just because many people do something doesn't mean all people do. I'm Christian, but what I believe is on a whole other side of the spectrum from what a lot of other Christians believe. I feel religion is largely a personal thing, and should be kept personal. There are those who wear their beliefs on their sleeve like some badge of sacrifice in an attempt to appear more pious than others. There are those who wield their bibles like swords and use what I believe is a reference guide to how we should live our own lives as a weapon to dehumanize and judge others. My beliefs are my own, and pertain to my own life and how I think I should live it. If someone wants to live their life differently, then that's because that's what their beliefs tell them. And as long as they're not hurting anyone else, I'm okay with that.
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@etnad0 (230)
• United States
7 Jul 08
i've never gotten in anyones face about it... but evolutionists are constantly getting in a Christians faith... that doesn't make sense not to use one's belief system to create laws... that's what laws are based on... some people don't believe that creationism should be taught in school... some people believe that we shouldn't say God in the pledge... some people believe that the ten commandments shouldn't be seen in government buildings... those are all laws people are fighting for because that's what they believe in... Faith isn't based on proof... that's why its called FAITH... you don't have to have faith in something you can see, because you KNOW its there... as far a keeping my beliefs a secret... not as long as they flood the tv with their opinions and beliefs... i feel i have the right to express my own... i don't just go up to random people and preach fire and brimstone... i actually dropped out of seminary because i don't want to preach... i don't even go to church... my views on Chritianity, life, and the Bible are way out in left field for some people... but its my belief and again, i've never told anyone they were wrong in what they believe...
• United States
6 Jul 08
etnad0, Don't you get it? It's a game....You have to learn the rules, understand the players, and know who YOU are and how you fit in the game. When you begin to figure all of that out, you won't let those discussions get to you - OR the people who don't play fair. Just laugh it off, make your opinion known and get on with living. You will find, when you are drawn into the discussion, you will fair better if you stand your ground in honesty or - just leave those kind of conversations alone. Those type discussions aren't really asking for your honest opinion - based on what you believe in. They are asking for a response so their numbers and income rise. If they aren't asking for that, they are those who are intended to either confuse you, or just plain get you upset. (Just like people in the real world). It's just up to you who you respond to and how. These people don't really want to know the answers to their questions. They are asking questions to get a response - not an answer. You can play the game or you can let them get you upset. They're not looking for change. You have to expect it........or pack up your marbles and don't play........Just some friendly advice.
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@mmiller26 (1930)
• Canada
6 Jul 08
See, I don't have a problem with you having a problem with homosexuality. I don't agree with you, but that's okay. You're entitled to your opinion and what you want to think is fine. But I do have a problem when people start speaking out from a position of hate and using words like "abomination." I do have a problem when people use their own version of morality to condemn what others do, when they have enough sin in their own lives that they should be worrying about. And I especially have a problem with people using their religion to prevent people they don't even know from living their lives happily, simply because it makes that person uncomfortable. I feel that God is about love, Christianity should be too, and not enough people are living by Christ's example.
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@etnad0 (230)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I don't care what homosexuals do... people use words like "abomination" because that's what they Bible says... the Bible is clear that God sees it as that... I don't go to rallies or marches or anything like that because I'm not a die hard fanatic... i just keep my opinions on the fourm where people have the FREE WILL to read it or not...
@etnad0 (230)
• United States
6 Jul 08
thanks for the advice... i don't really get mad, more frustrated that they feel they can force their beliefs on me, but if i express mine, then its a big deal... and a Christian is suddenly forcing their beliefs on people... they do it all the time on tv, magazines, movies, etc...
@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
6 Jul 08
smiles.... good for you for getting your quota of posts on a topic. I hope you get some good responses to your topic that you actually like this time. :)
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@etnad0 (230)
• United States
7 Jul 08
you assume i have a quota of posts to get... about 75% of my topics get over 2 pages of responses. people don't have to respond if they don't want to discuss it... plain and simple...
@jerzgirl (9234)
• United States
7 Jul 08
You make some very good points. I agree - people who want freedom FROM religion have no more rights than people who want freedom OF religion. We are all free to believe or not, but my expressing a belief isn't the same as forcing my belief on someone - yet, forcing me to maintain silence on whether I believe IS forcing someone else's belief on me. Belief (faith) isn't knowledge (although it is sometimes described as the knowledge of things not seen), so requesting proof of something taken on faith is idiotic (although I do recall my own agnostic questionings of a similar nature). It shouldn't be illegal to express a belief in God, regardless of whose god it is. That is true freedom of religion. And it shouldn't be illegal to NOT believe. But, no one should be allowed to deny believers the right to say they believe, whether they be Christian, Jewish, Hindu, Muslim or Druid.
@etnad0 (230)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I agree...
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
7 Jul 08
I think it works both ways. Neither the Christians nor the non-Christians are going to change anyone's mind, so we should learn to live with differing views and respect eachother. I think the non-Christians probably get annoyed when Christians knock on their doors and try to convert them ... whereas non-Christians don't doorknock to do the opposite! Each to their own, and whatever blows your hair back!
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