Losing ones virginity
July 6, 2008 6:16am CST
Okey, do you think it's right to find yourself by losing your virginity in a guy? It's like finding your identity.. Is it reasonable what do you think... I just lose it last night and it seems that until now I'm still confused. I still can't even answer if I like guys or girls.. But I'm happy But i don't know who i am... arrggghhh...
7 Jul 08
I don't think losing ones virginity is the way to find out who you are, as you have proven, because you still are confused if you like girls or guys after you have lost your virginity. I think a woman's virginity is a very sacred thing that needs to be protected. I think it is a thing that is only given to the one you really love and would take care of you for the rest of your life.
7 Jul 08
Maybe you're right... I'm not denying the fact that I'm still confused but I believe that it's better to lose everything you have just to find yourself... Maybe the only thing that I really value is not my virginity but myself as a whole and virginity is just a part of the whole. It's better to lose the part than to lose the whole...