TRY IT FIRST!!! before you say you dont like!!!
By jHoEn16
@jHoEn16 (2043)
Australia
July 6, 2008 7:39am CST
that's my hubby's line.... wherever we are, at home or mall... wether its clothes, foods, shoes..etc..etc... he always say that line... know why? because everytime he likes something for me and i feel that it wont look good or taste good to me i will say nooooooo right away!!
like the other day, he was cooking food that i dont know what it called... he offered me some and i said no coz i dont like the smell... he said his usual line...
and when we were at the mall, i am looking for sunglasses and he pick one and he wants me to try it.... i just said no i dont like! it wont look good to me and again he said those lines... same with clothing, or shoes....etc etc...
how about you? are you same as me sometimes? that if you feel like the things wont look good or taste good to you, you will say no right away without trying it?
do you find it a bad habit or bad attitude? for me yes.... i feel bad about it and i am trying to changed it...
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7 responses
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
7 Jul 08
You and I are almost the same. I just don't feel good with something new and I just don't wanna try them sometimes. Like new shirts or shoes. And your hubby and my wife are the same too. She has the same tag line, "you try it first". So nowadays, if I have to be going for some place and wear something uncommon for me, I asked her opinion first...
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 08
Hello jHoEn16,
Sometimes when I think that I can't take it at all, I will say 'NO' straight away. But if I think it is good for myself to try it before saying 'NO', I will definitely give it a try. But whenever my husband asks me something, I will try first before saying no to him. I feel guilty for doing that to him *sighs*
@irishidid (8688)
• United States
6 Jul 08
I have to agree with your hubby on food. You don't know until you try it.
As far as the non-edible items I would say you should know whether or not you like it without having to try it.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
6 Jul 08
no one, i said no one bosses me around. har har har. my wife knows me so i think she wont try or tell me to taste something that she knows i will automatically say no. specially when it comes to food. she knows i am not that adventurous as she is. when it comes to clothes she knows that i am not that groovy person. i can even go out on jammies har har har.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
6 Jul 08
Well, your husband is right. Before you judge or say "no" to something, why don't you try it first. Looks can be deceiving. What is beautiful to a human's naked eye cannot be comfortable or doesn't taste good. Its just like buying clothes, many people prefer to branded clothes because they believe that the name will make them cool. Yes, they may be cool, but is it comfortable, affordable and versatile. You are also right, that is a bad attitude. take care =)
@latriciajones (846)
• United States
6 Jul 08
thats how my boyfriend is if he likes something and he wants me to try it he will get mad if i dont try it but then even if i try it and i still dont like it then he's like you dongt like nothing.
@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
7 Jul 08
hahahahaha.... we understand that they just want good things for us... but they cant understand that sometimes we have our own taste... we have our own vibration on certain things if it look good for us or not... if they want you to try it they want you to do it right away.... you know what i mean?
thanks for the responce mate have a nice day
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
hi jhoen! 
i hear that all the time! and i say it all the time. ^__^;; for me it depends on to what kind of thing i would try before i say i don't like it. if its food and it looks tasty and attractive, then i would try it. only after that i can say if i like it or not. if its food but it doesn't look attractive, i won't try it. and i will say i just don't like the appearance. ^__^;; as for clothes, i can try everything. but i would be in a pinch as to what to buy because so many would look good on me. 
as for shoes, i only try a few styles and designs because there are styles that don't look good on me. i don't have to try them all on before i can say i don't like it.
i think its not that bad to have that kind of attitude, its just a little annoying. ^__^;; how can you say you don't like something if you haven't tried it? that's true. but there are things that you can tell by just one look that you don't like it. you just can feel it.
i hear that all the time! and i say it all the time. ^__^;; for me it depends on to what kind of thing i would try before i say i don't like it. if its food and it looks tasty and attractive, then i would try it. only after that i can say if i like it or not. if its food but it doesn't look attractive, i won't try it. and i will say i just don't like the appearance. ^__^;; as for clothes, i can try everything. but i would be in a pinch as to what to buy because so many would look good on me. as for shoes, i only try a few styles and designs because there are styles that don't look good on me. i don't have to try them all on before i can say i don't like it.
i think its not that bad to have that kind of attitude, its just a little annoying. ^__^;; how can you say you don't like something if you haven't tried it? that's true. but there are things that you can tell by just one look that you don't like it. you just can feel it. 