How do you make your own opportunities?

hi msedge, I make my own opportunity in my own smart way. I will give all my best just to be successful in one opportunity that I wanted the most. I know that we may fail in the process but we don't need to gave up. We have to continue fighting to achieve our goal.

I have often found also that if people are unwilling to make the changes necessary life tends to make those changes happen somehow. Someone I know has been very disastisfied with their job for the last year and constantly moaned about it and now new management have taken over and she is forced into a postion of accepting working somewhere else or leaving so she is leaving. She would have had a lot less stress and been far more happier if she had made the decision herself ages ago eh!. Ellie :D

That's true. In life we deserve the best. I believe as well that we won't get it just by hoping for it. We have to stand up and make things happen. We want lots of things in our loves, may it be material or not. But for the things we deserve, it is not just handed over to us on a silver platter, we are given a chance to get it. It is up to us to decide if we want it or not. It's not like someone could just wave a magic wand and get something, it feels better to work hard for it.

I think I do it by being adaptable. When things don't go the way I planned or wanted them to happen, I don't just give up all hope and decide it was never going to happen anyway. I will reform my plan, look at it differently, change direction. I don't ever feel I have made the wrong choice or a bad decision because of the way things have turned out. Life is an adventure and new opportunities arise from whatever action I take, or if I don't take action something different will happen and I will get another chance. I believe in always taking a chance and never to let fear of failure stop me. I may fail, but if I did not achieve what I set out to do I will have learned from the experience and it may even lead me on to something else. I don't believe in complaining about things beyond my control. I can adapt and still find my own way of getting to where I want to be.