Fixing a fractured friendship..could it be possible?

Philippines
July 6, 2008 10:15pm CST
"No man is an island". It's really true. It's really hard being alone and no one to share your life with. May it be in times of sorrow,trouble,sadness or even happiness. Life is really more meaningful and worthy when you have someone to be with. Of course aside from our love ones and families,God is so great for allowing us to build friendship with someone or to other people. Then a good friendship start. Sharing your life even your innermost and darkest secrets and even came to the point that you're more closest than your own broods or siblings. But suddenly you wake up something went wrong. You've learned that she's mad at you just because the guy whom she really like or love most doesn't feel the same way for her but instead to you. How you would handle the situation? It is sad to note that a long friendship would end up just because of this very stupid reason. A guy! What do you do when good meaningful friendship start unravel? How do you mend the fabric of torn friendship? Is it possible to remain friends and bring back things the way it used to be?
2 responses
@dragon54u (31628)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I wouldn't let a man come between me and a friend. Men are like trains..when one leaves, another always arrives. Did you know she liked him? If not, she should've told you and you wouldn't have cultivated the relationship. You and your friend need to have a long talk. I'm sure you didn't mean to hurt her, she's probably just upset because he didn't return her affections.
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
yup..that's how i supposed to do but she don't want to talk to me, she's avoiding me! It really hurts to be treated this way. Is it my fault if it's me whom he liked?
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@dragon54u (31628)
• United States
7 Jul 08
No, it's not your fault at all. And I think you should give her time to cool off. If she doesn't change her mind, you'll have to just write her off and learn a lesson from it.
@katsmeow1213 (28895)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Time heals all wounds, and that is true for this situation too. In time she will see that guy wasn't worth it, and so long as you stay away from the guy, she will eventually come around again.