how will you know that ur partner is worthy for your love?

@joyines (239)
Singapore
July 7, 2008 4:40am CST
its true that it feels to good if your in love.but how will you know that if he is deserving for your love?
4 responses
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
If only it is as easy as just asking up front if what you have is worth it. But when it comes to love, it doesn't really work that way. It takes time, although it differs how long with each, and it's take all honesty and respect to know. As you move along with the relationship, you'll get to know the person better and so will your partner for you. It isn't easy but it will happen in your own time. It could be in a few days or even years, who knows? Sometimes you don't even have to ask, you'll just know it. And by that time, with no regrets and no pretensions, this is it.
@cyberfluf (4996)
• Netherlands
7 Jul 08
Love should never be a one way street, when you give someone your love you should get loved back in return. You have to be equal and there has to be understanding and trust to keep the relationship happy and healthy. Someone deserves your love if you feel like they deserve your love. Sometimes someone can be very good to you but you just don't feel love for them. They might deserve it based on how they act but you can't force yourself into loving someone. It comes down to loving each other and putting effort in making the relationship work.
@joyines (239)
• Singapore
8 Jul 08
i agree! in relationship it should always be a 2 way.its just like newtows law...for every action there is opposite & equal reaction
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
feeling good when in love is obvious. if the feeling is reciprocated and sustained, then it must be worth it. but one has to go beyond the feeling good of being in love, one must start loving the person and not dwell on the feeling good. the action of loving thr person, if it creates positive things, then love is deserved.
@chej18 (915)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Hi joyines, How would you know if you are worthy for your partner?This question can asked both sides.If you think you are worthy for him/her then you can asnwer that question easily. You become a prtner or husband and wife becouse you shared and you recieved his love.Yoou have to look both side, coz love cannot be worhty if its only for one person.You should be both inlove to each other and thougful,respect,honest,caring,trust,understanding and faithful.married is about trust if you dont have trust to your partner this cannot be balance.Have a nice day..Good luck.. Greetingsa from Che!