How did you give/receive the ring you value most?

Our Friendship Ring - A symbol of friendship and true love...
A symbol of a promise to be kept to the end...
"I WILL NEVER LEAVE"
New Zealand
July 7, 2008 6:32am CST
Please tell your own story and feel free to share your views about my story... The ring I value is most is a friendship ring, it is a couple's ring wherein I engraved a promise that "I WILL NEVER LEAVE." I gave it to my best friend/ ex gf... I gave it to her before she fell in love with me but at that time I was already in love with her and she knows that... and until today though we're not a couple anymore we still wear the ring because it started as a friendship ring anyway... so here's the story of how I gave it to her... I was looking for the perfect gift for our 8th friendship monthsary (weird as some may say but we do have a friendship monthsary) and I've thought of different ways to surprise her already and yet i wasn't contented... I originally planned to give her the ring on our 1st friendship anniversary but another four months seemed too long and I thought it was about time I gave it to her... so a week before our 8th monthsary I asked one of our friends to accompany me to Unisilver and I told her my plan... (well she's the #1 fan of our loveteam actually...) So after our class we went to the store immediately and selected the best rings they have (well not the most expensive ones but those that are really attractive...) after carefully assessing the rings I finally found that one ring that really stands out for me... it was very simple yet elegant in some way... So I bought two of that kind and had it engraved with the promise I have said previously... then I asked the saleslady if I could have two boxes and two certificates, one for each ring and she gladly made me choose the boxes I preferred to have... one was heart-shaped while the other was a simple hexagon... I asked the lady to put the ring for my best friends in the heart-shaped box... after carefully wrapping it and placing it inside a paperbag I placed it in my bag... Alas! The gift is all set I just have to wait for another week to be able to give it to her... The original plan was to give it to her on the exact date of our monthsary... I planned to take her to the park next to Makati Post Office where there is a fountain that is surrounded by beautiful lights at night... but unfortunately due to academic related and moment related circumstances that plan was about to be ruined... so on that same day when I bought the ring I impulsively decided to give it to her... She went after us to that same mall I bought the ring from after her duty so we had the chance to meet up and talk... She's not the type of person who enjoys mushy moments specially in public so at the flick of a finger all the things I originally planned to do was changed and I had to do everything in a casual yet romantic way... I took her to the middle of Glorietta and we sat on one of the benches there... It was snack time and we were both hungry so I kept asking her on what we will eat and how her day was in order to distract her from noticing what I was doing... I kept the conversation while I was secretly pulling the boxes of the rings from my bag... and finally I found and pulled the heart-shaped box... I kept it in my hand for quite some time while I was thinking of what to say... then I began saying things to her... (Haha! Time for Shakespeare) then I handed her the box which was by the way wrapped by cloth and she asked me what was it and I asked her to unwrap it... when she saw the heart-shaped box she started to ask me again what was inside so i took it from her hands opened it with one hand and took the ring out... and I told her "read" she was puzzled and didn't know what to do until she looked at the inside arc and read the line "I WILL NEVER LEAVE" she was teary-eyed but I didn't waste that moment I casually took her hand and placed the ring on her ring finger... she couldn't speak for quite some time... the I spoke again and told her... "There are 2 rings" so she asked where was the other... and I took the whole packaged from my bag, opened it and wore the other ring... the end...
2 responses
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
7 Jul 08
That is a sweet story. There are 2 rings that I cherish the most. The first one was my brother's gf ring. He got her a sterling silver ring with a black onxy stone and I helped him pick it out. He was giving it to her as a promise ring, a ring that would eventually lead to an engagement ring. Well, a couple months after she accepted it he found out she was pregnant....by another guy in the neighborhood. She at first tried to place it on him, but our mutual bestfriend told my brother how she saw her hanging with this other guy, well long story short he confronted her she didn't lie anymore and took the ring back. ANd he said he would rathergive the ring to someone he knew loved him...Me. I still have it and where it a lot. The second was a ring I got on graduation day from my mother. It also is a silver ring with 2 pearls sitting on a posts. My mother bought it with her 1st working paycheck after high school. She said it took her whole check and it was an original ring in the shape of a whale with the 2 pearls as the humps of the whale. It was a local Jeweler in Chicago who desgined it and I rarely wear it b/c once I did and one of pearls fell off and I was on my hands and knees searching for the little thing.
• New Zealand
7 Jul 08
wow! you're brother is a sweet guy... he's a good guy and I think he deserves someone that will love him twice as much as he is capable to love... that was a nice story too... well about the other ring... I understand how much you treasure it and not wearing it doesn't make its significance lesser in fact it makes it seem more important... it seems to me you really know how to value people and things... thanks for the response and thanks for taking time to read my really long post... happy posting... =)
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
7 Jul 08
Well, my borhter gave that to me a long time ago. He has since married a wonderful woman who gave him three wonderful boys. He stayed true to himself and has a happy marriage. And it is nice to hear stories from other people's lives.
• New Zealand
9 Jul 08
hehe that's true... =)
@therd27 (31)
• Philippines
7 Jul 08
wow... ur so sweet... well, the ring that i cherish the most is my boyfriend's gift to me on our anniversary... at first, i was really frustrated that day because i thought that my boyfriend forgot our anniversary because he didn't text me or even call me. and when i tried calling him, it's always offline.. this really made me mad. so i compromised with myself that if he won't show up until 5pm i will never ever forgive him... and then, it was 1 hour before the said time when i recieve a text from our common frend. she asked me to meet her up at robinson with the rest of our frends.. i was a bit hesitant but i agreed to do so. when i got to the place, my frends were not there.. and then i saw my boyfrend holding a bouquet of white roses with a familiar red box in it.. he asked me to open the box and there i saw a pair of beautiful silver ring with a gold lining at the middle, one for me and the other is for him .. it was really an amazing, wonderful experience.. for three years i have never pulled this ring from my finger and i hope that our relationship would last for a lifetime...
• New Zealand
7 Jul 08
wow... I'm sure the ring is quite expensive... I wish the best for both of you... I do hope you'll end up together forever... thanks for the response and thanks for taking time to read my really long post... happy posting... =) god bless you and your boyfriend...