is it ok for a girl to propose to a guy?

India
July 7, 2008 9:08am CST
hello i have never proposed to a guy,neither will i ever do-what abt u?do u feel its ok for a girl to propose?
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
8 Jul 08
Before I'm againts of these whole idea of a girl to propose to a guy. Simply akward not the normal thing. But as our society is heading into a new age, a new era. Everything changes, even the way how people deal with their feelings. As for me...why not? If you like a guy and he was a very shy type of person. It's better to let your feelings show. If he rejected you then move on with your life. Find another person to love. Why waste your time on someone that has no feelings for you. The point is life is too short to waste your time in playing the games of, he loves me...he loves me not. In marriage proposal, if I think that the guy doesnt want a serious relationship after I proposed to him because I wanted to get married. I better leave him. His not the one for me.
• India
15 Jul 08
hi, u r absolutely right! u can b too sweet as well as too harsh wen it comes to serious relationship. if the person whom u love do not feel anything for u, its useless wasting ur time on him n draging with it.just forget the past n move ahead in life as u said.
• United States
7 Jul 08
If i was in a relationship and marriage had been discussed but he was dragging his feet about actually asking the question, i would propose. In fact my mom asked my step dad to marry her. I see no problem with it. We are living in a modern age where a woman can ask a man out why not propose as well.
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@mcat19 (1357)
• United States
7 Jul 08
I would think it depends on their relationship. If they alternately ask each other out, alternately pay for dates, have an equal relationship in other ways, I think it would be fine.
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@saverio (402)
• India
15 Jul 08
hey everything is fair in love and war.If one has to propose be it boy or girl then he/she has every right to propose.The best thing to remember in relationships is that never involve a third person's opinion.Its always between two people.The saying holds good here that 'two is company,three is crowd.'