Who Will You choose?

if it came down to my boyfriend and my bestfriend, i know who i would choose and who i love more. since i started seeing my boyfriend, ive seen less and less of my bestfriend. we're as close anymore but when we get together, its like we were never apart. i do love my bestfriend, and shes funny, smart and well, the best but i love my boyfriend more. although i have only been dating him for a year now, i have come to see how close we are, how much we have in common, how much i really love him. lately, he has been my bestfriend. if it came down to the two, i would choose his. i understand the whole, "chicks before d-i-c-k-s" thing, since some guys will do something completly stupid to ruin a relationship but i know this isnt one of those. this is real. and if your bestfriend is really your besfriend she will always remain your bestfriend when you need her. bestfriends will always be there throughout your life, but when you meet "the one" you hold on to him, because you know it will turn into something more. although i love them both, i love him more.

Dear Johar, If you are asking this question, perhaps, your relationship with your girlfriend may not be as matured/strong as you may think. Perhaps you should ask yourself this way, would you hurt more if your girlfriend leave you, or your friend leave you. For me, it has always been my girlfriend. We had a very steady and strong bonding between ourselves, we both know that we will sacrifice anything for each other. And that is not even a chance that we would ask your question, because there will never be a situation where I will put her second and vice versa. Maybe you need more time and patience to let your relationship with your girlfriend grows into a strong and meaningful one. By then, you will feel the same as I do.

Hell Johar_ahmad, It depends how long do have known your and how long have known your friend? But I always think that I would choose my friends more because they have been therfe for me a long time, you can always get onother girlfriend,that is what I think. Regards Tamarafireheart.