Have you ever cheat your mate?

@ayessa (1586)
Philippines
July 8, 2008 8:53pm CST
I don't know what came to me but this question just pop to my mind. Does it really happen that even you are happy with your mate you will find other person? I mean you will like to cheat and fool around? Is thinking other peson while you are with your partner already considered cheating?
3 responses
@singlemommy (2952)
• United States
9 Jul 08
You know, I don't know if thinking about cheating with someone else or fantisizing about someone else would be considered cheating. I guess that is something personal that someone has to decide for themselves. I do believe that you can love more than one person. I mean, I have feelings for all my ex's, but all in different ways. I'm not one who would be with more than one man at a time. I do know that sometimes, when you are in a relationship and you aren't happy that sometimes the people do turn to other people to find that happiness, whether it is right or not, I think is a personal thing between the people in the situation. Do I think cheating is right, no I don't.
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
I also was like that with my exs and I even feel guilty about that cause I think I should give my whole emotion with my partner now.
• United States
9 Jul 08
this is a very personal choice. but i do have to say i cheated on my first husband,a couple of times, i am now married again to one of those men and i have been with him for 8 years now and have not cheated on him. i think when you find that true love , the one and only,once in a lifetime kind of love the thought never crosses your mind, and if a chance to cheat comes along you dont notice it or you will walk away.
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
Thanks for that good words sprmm! I appreciate it and I will really put that on my mind.
@subha12 (18452)
• India
9 Jul 08
i am not in any relationship. i never had been too. once the person who proposed me, cheated on me big time. its something bad that happened to me.cheating is something really bad.
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
Cheating really is bad. And I know that it is aweful to be cheated too. Thanks for sharing.
@cncoke (439)
• China
9 Jul 08
I can say I never cheated my mate.I get on well with my mate.When he/she is in trouble,I often help him/her.