Money and friends,which one will you choose?
July 9, 2008 10:48am CST
I faced a difficulty yesterday,I did not actually solve the problem. Today I regretted of my stupidity yesterday. Yesterday,my manager viewed all the staffs' performance and gave appraisal. It was not a good day for me. All this while one of my colleague was helping me with certain tasks,but without her help,I still can do on my own. Every time since she so excited wanted to help me,then I just let her be. When yesterday's appraisal time,she got all the rewards. I was surprised yet angry, I felt she was like back stabbed me.I was about to tell the whole truth to my manager but I did not do so because the colleague was there,and I felt bad for saying the truth. But today I regretted about my decision yesterday. Have you ever faced such experience before? If you are given money and friend to choose,which one will you choose?Please share with me....
• United States
14 Jul 08
Your "friend" should have explained to your manager that she had just been lending you a hand and that you had done most of the work. I don't think she is much of a friend. Most of the time i would say that friendship comes before money but in this case she dosen't sound like a friend so i would put the money first.