Am in a terrible situation!!!

@coolnash (110)
Mauritius
July 9, 2008 12:32pm CST
my best friend who took away the girl i loved wants to be friend again with me....the girl left him..he apologised to me today...do you think i should accept him as a friend again?
8 responses
• United States
9 Jul 08
They are both at fault. I don't think he could be trusted, but if you can't imagine your life without him in it, than do what you gotta do. Funny thing is, if he wanted your friendship, why did he wait till she left him?
• China
9 Jul 08
I'm agree with ci_svufan. he is not a real friend.
@rake02 (3)
• Australia
9 Jul 08
It really depends on if you really and truly are his friend. If you are then it should be easy to accept and get on with life if you're not it could be hard i would just go with my gut instincts and anyway didnt you say that say left him...
• United States
9 Jul 08
I'm sorry to hear this, man. Life sucks sometimes, you know? I think it's time you get a new best friend. A real friend wouldn't do that to you, dude. In the future he may do this again or try to take something else of yours. I would give it some serious thought on how much you like having him around.
• United States
9 Jul 08
If it were me I would forgive but keep a great distance... I don't think you would be able to trust that person as you did before and it can cause your relationship to be sour especially if you loved this girl... now did this girl love you and were you and her trying to create a relationship... remember people make mistakes and experience is our best teacher just watch what you do around people and what they do around you.... don't be bitter just be the better person
@zeroflashx2 (2489)
• Philippines
9 Jul 08
That would be unfair for you if he wanted to be back the same way as you were friends with him before. Your trust was already broken because of his act. And, correct me if I'm wrong, I'm with sullivan on this. Did this event (girl leaving him) triggered him to come back to you? If so, I doubt it is 100% honest. In my opinion, you aren't in a terrible situation. He is. You may have moved on from the girl and what happened before. He is just starting. You can accept him as friend, but most probably not to same extent as you were before. You could always forgive him but it is very possible he can destroy your trust again. Take care my friend.
9 Jul 08
Hello coolnash, Its a very hard to decide, but I do not think you could good friends again as you will not trust him again if you have another girl firend and he is around you, but keep him as a friend from a distant. Good luck. Tamarafireheart.
@mmiller26 (1932)
• Canada
9 Jul 08
I guess the question you have to ask yourself is, if she hadn't left him, would he still be coming back and asking for your friendship? Somehow I doubt it, if it's taken this long for him to come back. And how do you know he isn't just lying in wait until you find another girl you like? He may do the same thing. Did this guy know you loved that girl when he took her? Even if the girl didn't feel the same about you, friends just don't do that to friends.
@howard96h (11643)
• New York, New York
9 Jul 08
I am sorry but if he did that to you once he will do it again. They both were wrong for what they did. Neither one of them can be trusted and he is not a true friend.