Womb for rent/lease...would you ever?

@raydene (9871)
United States
July 9, 2008 1:54pm CST
I could not carry a child then hand it over. But I do understand that some do this to help other couples. Would you? Why? xoxoxoxoxo
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
12 Jul 08
no I could never carry a child and then hand it over to anyone, and as good hearted as I am I just could not carry a child for anyone other than me.
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• Canada
13 Jul 08
I don't even want to have my own children let alone someone else's. I don't want any part of my body "rented out."
@mummymo (23706)
11 Jul 08
I would love to say that i had the strength and patience and the selflessness to give someone a gift like that Mom but i am afraid that apart from not having had good pregnancies and not being fit enough to do that I don't think I would be able to cope with giving away a child I had carried and nurtured and then given birth to! xxx
@cher8558 (425)
• Canada
11 Jul 08
Hi friends, You know I'm past the age now, but I have had three children of my own. I absolutely loved being pregnant. I never felt so healthy in my life. I am sure it is very hard to hand it over in the end, but not being able to have a child must be heart breaking. I think if I could still have kids, I would do it. Not for the money, just because I loved being pregnant. That truly is a gift. Cheryl
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
12 Jul 08
raydene no I could not do that as after nine months that baby would be mine,no matter what, and it would kill me to give away my baby no matter what. I admire those women who are selfless and do help others by carrying a baby for them for nine months. I just could not do that myself no way.
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
i couldn't rent my own womb..having a baby is a difficult thing and also life threatening,i think i'll save this for my own future kids
• United States
9 Jul 08
I know a woman who has done this twice, actually she just gave birth not to long ago to twins. It is one of the most selfless acts I can ever fathom doing as a woman. I have nothing but complete respect and admiration for her. If my life were different I wouldn't have a problem doing it myself but medically I wouldn't be able to.
• United States
9 Jul 08
I would do this (being a surrogate NOT putting my child up for adoption), not just for the money but for the satisfaction of helping someone become a parent. I love being a mom. I loved being pregnant as well. I have 2 kids. And, it's not like you are having a kid and just handing it over. The baby is in no way a part of you. I think this is wonderful.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Hi raydene! I have heard a lot of women doing this but I don't think I can do such a thing. I have nothing against them but I guess, I am not the kind of person who have that strength to give away the baby I carried for nine months in my womb. There are a lot of women who can't carry babies in their wombs and these women who are willing to carry it for them (for a price )is still admirable somehow. Take care and God Bless!
• United States
9 Jul 08
I could carry a bun in the oven for someone. I could not give my eggs away. I would wonder where my child is but someone else baby sure. To give someone a gift of a child is wonderful.
@bmorehouse1 (1028)
• United States
9 Jul 08
I could not do it, but I know someone who is presently a surrogate mother. She has also sold her eggs and has pictures of the children that were born from them. I guess she loves doing it and helping those that can't have their own children.