do you have a paranoid boyfriend?

Philippines
July 10, 2008 12:12am CST
i have a boyfriend..every time i talk about things that happened to me everyday, he keeps on thinking that there is someone that i am with other than him.. for example..i told him that there is a fastfood where i have eaten my lunch, and i told him that the food there is very tasty,and very affordable so i ask him to eat there next time.. but his concern is not about the food that i am blabbering about..his concern is who i am with in that fastfood.. sometimes i just don't want to tell him things that happened to me because i already know where would that conversation will end..that is..his concern about men who were with me..which i tell you..none..
4 responses
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
are you guys together for a long time? have you talked to him about that? A relationship is kinda suffocating if its like that. Trust is a very important factor in a relationship. Without it, its gonna be a really tough one.
nyce_chique
@nyce_chique (44)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
yeah we have talked about that a lot of time..we've been together for a year and a half.. i can see that he is changing..but i still don't get used to it,,every time he does that..even if he says that he is only joking..
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
ah..I see. wow...good thing you guys lasted for a long time. And I'm glad to hear that his changing. Good for you.
fwidman
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
10 Jul 08
Sounds like your boyfriend has some serious trust issues to deal with. This is not a good thing for you, if he is so jealous. I am surprised he doesn't have lunch with you every day just to make certain that you are not with someone else
nyce_chique
@nyce_chique (44)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
nope..we're still students so we just have no time to be with everyday..i really hope he could change his attitude..but it's just one side of him..i still am happy when i'm with him.. thanks anyway..
neymonx
@neymonx (4)
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
it seems that your is a true paranoid about the two of you.. maybe you should talk about this problem.. and you two can only solve this.. regardz! ^_^
lost4eva
@lost4eva (33)
• United States
10 Jul 08
My boyfriend acts like that some what of the time.. it gets to the point some times that I don't want to open my month as he will take something the wrong way and get jealous. I honestly can't give you advise but if you do love him, you got to talk to him. When my boyfriend gets jealous or is on the defencive since I called him out.. Ill let him vent but when he is finished I just smile tell him I love him and I don't wont to lose him but if he can't see that he is the only man I want there is no point to the relationship. He doesn't get really get jealous anymore he just goes quit now but you just got to reasure him thats all hes looking for!