do you think the lifetime network is a bad thing for women?
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
United States
July 10, 2008 1:24am CST
i love lifetime channel so dont get me wrong but i have noticed that most of their movies involve men cheating, stalking, women stalking the men, etc etc.. while i dont mind that a lot of them are depressing i was just thinking that it just feeds our insecurities about our significant other and whomever whether it be the babysitter or the secretary that they cheat on their wives with.. not to mention i have had stalkers in my past and seeing more stalkers on tv doesnt make me feel like there are less out there lol.. or that every woman wants our men!!
do you think that we wouldnt be as paranoid as we are/or could be if we didnt watch it? or do you think that if the fears are gonna be there they would be there no matter what??
like i said i LOVE the lifetime channel but i think it preys a little on fears of men going with their secretary when every one has heard of that happening a lot as is.. or maybe it doesnt happen as much as we think and we are just constantly reminded?? i dont believe that watching something will change you for the worse but still i wonder..
what do you all think??
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
8 Aug 08
yeah my hubby says the same about the channel being a "hate men" type thing
@greysfreak (1384)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I also love lifetime! I defintiely understand where you are coming from though, there are a lot of movies about abuse, stalking, etc. And I'm sure it leads to fear, but I try to keep in mind that there is a pretty small chance that most of those things will ever happen. I think it might be good in another light, because watching these movies makes me more suspicious, and I am more cautious. I know if I ever had a boyfriend who layed a finger on my violently I would kick him to the curb, and some of that attitude comes from seeing the stuff I see on movies.
So they may cause fear, but probably also raise awareness. Some of them are based on true stories, and while it scares me, it also interests me, sometimes I even psychoanalyze the psycho's. haha
I definitely don't think it's a bad thing for women, but I think it is bad to just casually watch it without thinking about what you are watching. LOL Most time time I get so into the movies that I literally yell and talk back to the tv! There are times when I am so mad that if I had a blood pressure check it would probably be up, that's how affected by movies I get! LOL
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
10 Jul 08
lol i can just picture these housewifes that their hubbys have to work late and they are like freaking out because he has a cute co-worker or something
@pheonixstar1982 (2307)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I think its important to remember that some of those movies are fiction, but yeah could happen. I think the channel is geared towards women to help empower us to handle things better and what to watch out for, but not necessarily to feed out fears as women.
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
10 Jul 08
yeah i know they are trying to make women feel strong because they see their charactors go through hell but jeeze they need to find new subjects.. they have how many thousand about husbands cheating?!?! im just glad im not a jealous person to where im not psycho paranoid after watching them.. but i like drama movies so i will still watch them.. if nothing better is on haha.. plus i have to have my greys 

@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
11 Jul 08
What is shown on Lifetime is no worse than what airs on the other networks. My only real complaint in regards to Lifetime is that they no longer have "Blood Ties" in their lineup. That was the only reason I have found to watch Lifetime on a regular basis.
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
11 Jul 08
one thing i hate about lifetime is they make tv shows then take them off and never show them again.. i thought they were keeping on blood ties?? i wonder what happened to that.. its one of the few that made it to a 2nd season haha
@lanlan011 (701)
• United States
8 Aug 08
i love lifetime movies but i dont think its bad for you. i think we would still be paranoid if we didnt watch it. the movies do repeat theirselves and most of them have similiar plots. sometimes watching men cheating and leaving their wives makes me think that men will cheat on me. but dont always expect the things in the lifetime movies to happen to u and dont think that it cant happen to u
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
8 Aug 08
i think if the person is paranoid it may be a bad thing but if the person is balanced it may make them more aware that things can happen maybe?
@fluffnflowers (1594)
• United States
10 Jul 08
The only person I know who actually watches Lifetime is a 93 year old man!
I'm not overly impressed with the Lifetime movies and find that a lot of them are as bad, if not worse, than a lot of soap operas (forgive me if you like either, JMO
). Women tend to like the stories and I do think that it probably encourages a lot of those suspicious thoughts. My mom knows someone who left her husband because he came home and acted like a character in a cheap romance that she was reading who ended up beating his wife and kids.
I know it's all dependent on the person watching (and the lady who left her husband was a bit nuts), but I do think that you're right about the movies praying on fears of the 'common woman'. They're supposed to be entertainment, but there will always be those people who take television as deep philosophy.
I'm not overly impressed with the Lifetime movies and find that a lot of them are as bad, if not worse, than a lot of soap operas (forgive me if you like either, JMO
). Women tend to like the stories and I do think that it probably encourages a lot of those suspicious thoughts. My mom knows someone who left her husband because he came home and acted like a character in a cheap romance that she was reading who ended up beating his wife and kids.
I know it's all dependent on the person watching (and the lady who left her husband was a bit nuts), but I do think that you're right about the movies praying on fears of the 'common woman'. They're supposed to be entertainment, but there will always be those people who take television as deep philosophy.@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
10 Jul 08
i like drama even if its depressing and i dont take them literally although my hubby teases me that i will think and accuse him of everything the guys do on there lol.. i just wish they would broaden their subjects.. sick of seeing cheating guys etc.. i used to not like lifetime as much but they are replaying shows i like now and their movies they are making are getting better but if i were to lose it i wouldnt cry lol 

@thestar (304)
• Egypt
9 Aug 08
well channels only press on thing which help them to raise them audiences so i never believe channels craps i know there some of it right but most of it not .
i was on of big fans of watching talk show too but after while i discover that even talk show have a hidden hands to play it i hope you understand me . there is some ppl has a benefits to announce this kinds of news and to hide this also in lifetime they only play on the winning horses and they always says ppl love to watch that .






