Long Distance relationship

July 10, 2008 8:02pm CST
what can you advice like me,coz' im in love with a woman,but were far apart. will i continue this relationship that im planning to or not? does long distance relationship last long? if yes how?
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11 responses
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
yeah you can work it out, if you trust each other then your relationship will work out. even if your in a LDR, you can still show your love or affection to her by talking to her everyday, show that she's important to you,show that you care for her any many more things. goodluck & i hope your relationship will work out :)
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
14 Jul 08
hehe ^_^ Yeah, trust is the most important thing of all, and never let the other party worry about u, as LDR does not allow to see each other often ^_^ muahhh mauhhh
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
yeah trust is very important, if you dont give trust to your partner, even she/he trusts you, relationship will not work too.. trust must come in both parties to make it work ^_^ right hun :)
@ellie333 (21016)
11 Jul 08
Hi I have never had a long distance relationship but one of my daughters has been with her boyfriend 6 years now and they live over 200 miles apart the majority of the time but it has stayed the course because they love each other and he is prepared to wait until she finishes university before they spend more time together, sometimes she is based nearer to him and they get to see each other more but sometimes it may be every other weekend. They go on holiday together for a couple of weeks at a time and also has four day breaks away too. I think the key is trust. If you love and trust this woman there is no reason why it shouldn't work. Good luck. Ellie :D
11 Jul 08
in our case we see each other just twice a year,the summer and the Christmas break? or sometimes just one a year,because of her studies, and it so hard and difficult...
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@ellie333 (21016)
11 Jul 08
Hi I still think as long as you are in communciation with each other daily either by phone, text or email you'll be fine, she won't be studying forever and if the love is real it will stay the course. Ellie :D
11 Jul 08
what if she's tired of communicating,she loves me but she's just tired talking and its like a daily routine... i have no option or other way just to keep the love alive...
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
Yes, or maybe it's a case to case basis. If both of you really honest with each other, trust each other, You have more patience maybe it will work. As long that the communication is there. But how far would you not see her? Do you have any plans to see her and how long will that be? If it will take you to long forget it. When you really love someone you will really find away.Have a nice day!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
14 Jul 08
NO one can say for sure how long a relationship can last, no matter LDR or not.. What matters most is the love and trust involved to make the relationship strong ^_^ As long as u trust and knows what u are doing, it can last ^_^
@nylnemnad (166)
• Philippines
13 Jul 08
im into long distance relationship. im in the city my man is at my hometown. weve been together for 8 yrs. my friends would say how do i deal with it. simple, i just love him honestly and whole heartedly. it is not impossible for long distance relationship to prosper. just avoid the temptation. dont flirt. make some limitations with friends and other people specially the opposite ones. keep in mind that it will hurt you alot if she did the same bad thing you would do. just take a risk. remember that loving is feeling and you will never know the outcome unless you tried.hope it helps.
@jherkus (23)
• Philippines
26 Aug 08
im into long distance relationship right now and i could say "yes" it will works according to your situation and setup with you partner.from my experience, my hon is from germany and im here in philippines; i could say that somehow it was really hard to stay and be faithful because of the temptation around me but as long as i love my partner, have trust and respect i guess this is the key for a long distance relationship. stay behave and happy as it will make things good watever happens.
@sisco100 (2338)
• United States
11 Jul 08
they can but its very rare it depends on how far u live from her and how often u can visit her. personaly i've never had one last long cuz of the fact tht its hard for me to be far from the person i'm dating and not being able to see them when ever i want. personaly i would just enjoy it will it last but i would try to make an effort to more closer to her or the other way around.
• United States
11 Jul 08
I've heard that long distance relationships can be tricky. It really depends on the relationship you had before one of you left. It's all about trust. And if you don't have a firm sense of trust you will be left behind completely. In some cases the long distance doesn't affect the relationship.
@dededede (15)
• United States
11 Jul 08
Do the two of you pray about the situation? Do you both feel that the other person is the one you really want to be with? Do the two of you communicate often? If you both answer yes to these than I'd say yes it should work.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
..definitely, the answer of your question depends on how you take care of your relationship.. There is a saying which says, Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder.. Only if you have an open communication to each other.. Strong foundation would be your TRUST to each other.. You have to believe that both of you could make the relationship work.. I witnessed several long distance relationship and they have only one thing to say.. Never ever forget to communicate with each other no matter how busy you are, no matter if you have problems.. It would be good for each of you to feel that you are just near and you are always there for each other.. Let both of you feel that you are loved..
• Philippines
11 Jul 08
yes, it will work even if you're apart from each other. just trust and communication are the essential keys for having strong relationship. if sometimes you feel that you're not anymore happy with your situation, just think that it will pass and it is only a trial between you and your partner. being tempted with other girls around you don't make a happy and strong relationship but rather, it will ruin your lovelife. it is normal to admire someone new but of course, the one you love is different. Just think of ways on how you and your partner will soon be together.:) i know you will surpass it all.