Thanks God for the children that we have.

Hello alkurishy, It must so teriable for you and your wife, it is so cruel to make you wife have those abortions it was unnessary, she could have had those children. This war is so bad what is a for? Now you must not look back only forward and cherish your children and your wife, they are so precious as you yourself, be happy and look ahead to the future, Tamara

Yes, i agree that it was miscarriage not abortion. They have different in meaning but it is ok.Well, based on what we have studied before on my College Days. Abortion is where you really tend to lose the baby and do not want to get pregnant while Miscarriage is where do you not really expect that you will lose you baby. The common reason of Miscarriage is stress. Do not let her think something to stress her out which means do not let her think of problems because they are more emotional in that time.You should also check the location of the baby. Maybe it's not in the right place. She should not moved so fast and get tired of working. Eat a lot of fruits and vegetables with vitamins is a good way but never ever forget to Pray to God. Ask God to have a baby again. I am living here in the Philippines and we have traditions on Obando,Bulacan that every celebration of the saint. If you want to get pregnant you need to dance and join the ceremony. Many people do this and got a baby already.

i am a bit confused when i read your posts... you say that you have 5 abortions for no reasons and you and your wife are healthy... that sounds a bit cruel to me... why would you want to kill your baby if nothing happened to your wife or the baby's health??? i think you mean miscarriages... and i believe that we always have to thank God for His blessings and everything we have... good to hear that you already have 2 children now... take care and have a nice day...

In my last response to you I told you about the book I am reading, and about the man I know from Iraq. I read another book by the same author, aout a woman who was falsely accused and arrested, spending time in one of Baghdad's worst prisons. Good for you for being able to be thankful for wat you hae. ha's a good attitude to have.

Dear friend, I hope you won't be offended by the language police thing, but you need to know. Abortion is the purposeful termination of a pregnancy. Some people call miscarriages spontaneous abortions, but that allows a wrong impression. It's obvious that you mean miscarriages, and you would never purposely destroy a child's chance to live. I am so sorry for all the miscarriages. What incredible sadness, to say the least. I am a pacifist, and I think it's horrible that we've come this far in the history of the world and there are still wars. If my country is responsible for devastation of families in your country, that makes me sadder than I can express. Thank God you and your wife have two healthy childen. Throughout your lives, you must cherish each other. Good people deserve good lives.

I was reading through some of your responses and in medical termology it is indeed called a spontaneous abortion when a women has a miscarriage. I had four miscarriages myself for no reason that the doctors could find but eventually ended up with two daughters and two sons. I am glad that she was able to experience pregnancy and child-birth, there truly is no greater gift than children.

What a blessing you two have. This was the power of God, He knows the tough situations you two have been struggling but rest assured that He won't let you go and He will be always beside you and protecting your family. All you got to do is to pray and ask for His kindness to help you in many situations. I am sure He will listen to your prayer and will answer it when the time is right. As for me I've been married almost 3 years to my wife and we have not have any single child but we are already planning to have first baby next year if God allows. The first few years there are lots of conflicts between us and our family. It's like turbulence in our first years of marriage but these times we were both changing our ways and we always pray to God that He will open ways for us. Thanks for sharing. It's a joy for me to read a sharing like this. God bless you and your wife and your children.

Pregnancy is a wonderful time when it results in a healthy baby being born. It is wonderful that you had two children within the space of three years. It must have been very upsetting for your wife to suffer five miscarriage. Often people are unsure why a miscarriage has happened. I guess that stress might be a reason why many women in Iraq had miscarriages. Good luck in the future.

I am sorry that this happened to your family. It sounds as if you have suffered a lot of pain. Please don't hate the US for this. Most of us are against the war and what it has done to peoples lives....over there and here. So many innocent people have been killed and hurt because of it. On both sides, far too many people have suffered.

alkurishy you and your wife have been through a lot and you are to be commended for your positive attitudes. having miscarriages is so miserable. I went through that once and was heart broken but finally did have two lovely children. Agent Orange was probablyto blame for your wife's misfortunes and am so sorry that our army used that in 1990, thats so sad. but I am glad you do have two children and I am sure they are doubley dear to you from all you both have suffered.Mybest wishes to you and your wife and children. bless you .

I heared before, some women have abortions for no reason. That's terrbile. God bless you! my friend.