What the meaning of true friend?
By moodygal
@moodygal (26)
Malaysia
July 12, 2008 7:56pm CST
True friend is someone who always stand by your side when you need him/her.True friend also someone that can share many things.Does a true friend blaming on you when you do not find them for a length of time?As you are studying oversea and will only back to your hometown seldomly. As you are not trying to avoid he/she but you are busy with your studies.Even if you went to gathering session once in a blue moon he/she will still blames on you.Does you really have to go out with he/she all the time when he/she call you?If you are not out,does it mean you are the person that find he/she when you need he/she but when you do not need he/she, you forget he/she?However you are still forward some messages to him/her during special occasion.DOes he/she still my true friend?
13 responses
@dennis1 (21)
• United States
13 Jul 08
A true friend is one that respects your boundaries. They don't ask you to do more than you are willing to do. A true friend is one you can be open and honest with. You can tell them something unpleasant and not be penalized. A true friend respects you.
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@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 08
No such thing as true friend.This is because human keep on changing and same thing goes to feeling.When you are close to a friend,he or she will be you closest friend where you will share whatever with him or she.But it doesn't mean that this friendship is forever especially when you are far apart from each other.The challenge of distance will change the feeling of human.You might still contact with him or her but the feeling will be different when there's really a long time you din't contact with him or she.Sending greeting during special occasion is not a way to mantain a friendship,it is just to remind him or she aboout you as their friend.
@sabahking (416)
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13 Jul 08
i strongly disagree with you!true friends is exist in our world.If they are their true friend sure long long ago you and them sure get sweet memory together.So distance is not the problem.The solution for you is you must take the initiative and contact with your friend! Do not just waiting at there.The most important things is we must have the heart to do.
@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 08
yup..That's why you sweet memories..Thing that already happen and only can be keep as a memory.You will no longer have that "sweet memories" when the feeling among each other started to change even you got the initiative to contact them but the feeling of being toghether will be weird and might not like before.Everything is base on the feeling.
@moodygal (26)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 08
Although human keep changing from time to time, but does it mean the relationship will change also?If he/she think you are his/her true friend, he/she will not easily change what they feel toward you.Butif he/she change as influence by other people,especially somebody else talk bad behind you.He/she don't even hear any explaination from you but believed blindly to what other people said.Is it this still call the true friend?No matter put how many effort on it, it still the same.Sending message during special occasion is the way to remind each other but if he/she don't even a single message to you.But he/she deny you that you don'y even contact with he/she through call or message.The fact is,you had done the things.This is the sad part for being friend with he/she.He/she don't believe in you.
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
13 Jul 08
True friends accept you for who you are. And sometimes they get you better than anyone else. A true friend should feel like family to you and you should be able to tell them anything that's on your mind. And no, true friends shouldn't blame you if you lack time for them. That's really needy and being overly clingy is not attractive on a person.
@Ricky007 (512)
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13 Jul 08
tru friend is one on whom you can easily rely for anything..if you are in trouble..your true frnd will be there to help you out..he will understand you..i am unluck that i got few true friends...i knw such friends from past 8 years and we are still gud frnds and i do send them messages on special occasions.. :)
@matteeboi (2)
• United States
13 Jul 08
that is 100% true. true friends are the people that stand by your side always and never give up on you.
@sabahking (416)
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13 Jul 08
I think true friend is the friend when they always beside. If the friends is your true friends forever is your true friends.This is because You sure have sweet memory with them so whatever you must cant forget whatever you are at where and what you are doing! So i think how long u and them not meet and not contact , they will still your true friends.
@sabahking (416)
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13 Jul 08
Dun worry.He will in another world see u and beside u and even support you !He will see what you write in mylot about him.He will very happy when you still remember him that i can gurantee to you.We maybe have many friends but maybe we only have one true friend.If we have 1 true friends is better we have 1000 friends.Do you agree with me?
@jlaparece (51)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
True friend is someone you can lean on when you are down. Someone you can share your problems and also share his/her problem to you. Someone you can cry on when your are in deep sorrow. Someone whom you can ask for an advice when you are upset. A true friend is like a brother/sister to you where in you can ask for help when you are in geart trouble. Someone who will protect you when you are in danger and in harm. Someone who protect you not only physically but also spiritually.
@scorpionjot (59)
• India
13 Jul 08
true friend is that person,
who gives you a miss call at odd times,
and always wanted to disturb you.. no matter how busy you are.....
This is True Friend... and we mostly we people don't have true friends....
Am also still searching for one....
@tamarafireheart (15384)
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13 Jul 08
moodygal,
A true friend is you don't have to live in each other pockets all the time but if your friend need you you will be there and the same when you need your friend he/she willbe there for you. Same here with my friend.
Tamarafireheart.
@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 08
True friends are someone who care about you when you are in trouble,who stand by your side when you need them and who share your happiness and sadness along the path you all walk through. In life,it's hard to find true friends. Sometimes because of time and distance,we may lost contact or seldom contact with our true friends. Seldom contact never means they are not our true friends anymore. Once we get together, we still can cling together,it's undeniable,they are our true friends.
@cherrytcy86 (119)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 08
true friend is sincerly for u to USE him/she.. and when they call u " good friend" .. means u r a good to be use anytime when they need u...
