How busy is your House?
By slickcut
@slickcut (8140)
United States
July 12, 2008 11:23pm CST
Some people have lots of company all of the time,and always people coming by or dropping in...I do have company sometimes but basically my home is quite and not lots of people coming and going..I do enjoy company but i also enjoy my home life quite well....I can find all kinds of things to keep me busy.It is just myself and my hubby and we enjoy our time together...I am a people person as well because i do enjoy company,but ..i recently visited my sister at her house and all day people would drop by,and her phone rang all the time,she hardly had time to relax..When i got home it was nice just relaxing...So How is your house ? do you have people in and out all the time or can you sit and relax and enjoy your home? Please share your days....
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28 responses
@moondancer (7431)
• United States
14 Jul 08
My house is nice a quite most of the time. I do have my daughter and grandchildren coming over. My grandchildren stay with me a lot. As far as others coming to the house, well there are not many. The phone rings some days all day, which I don't like unless it's someone to really talk to...not someone wanting me to buy or get something. I hate these calls. I don't like solicitations.
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@moondancer (7431)
• United States
15 Jul 08
That's a really good idea. I did this years ago, but they say it expires after so long and you have to do it again. I guess it's that time for me to do it again, lol.
@redkathy (3374)
• United States
14 Jul 08
My house is very quite now, in fact too quit! I had two boys, a few live in neices and there was always someone at the house. when my youngest son was the only child(teen) left, there were more people than any other time. His band practiced 5 nights a week, all their friends came to watch. One time the neighbor even came to watch! The hubby and I used to joke about getting up in the morning, "You better be dressed and ready in the morning because you never know who you might find when you go out our bedroom door!"
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Hi slickcut,
It's very rare to have visitors in the house..We got friends dropping by during weekend but it's not regular! We have a very quite and peaceful house,,This is only the type of environment I grew up with my Parents...So, basically, I do love it..
I was renting an apartment in College and when I got a job where the house is always full of people and visitors...It annoys me sometimes and will hang out with friend's house...
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@jenseyedea (579)
• United States
13 Jul 08
I like to be able to sit and relax and enjoy our home. In general we are a busy bunch. So it seems when I am home, relax is not what I am doing. There is always chores to be done and it always seems I am the only one that knows how to do them. I would love to have people over, but I just moved here and do not know many people yet.
@vampoet (825)
• Singapore
13 Jul 08
I like a quiet retreat when I get home from work. I guess it depends on where you live and all that bcause some people live in really quiet parts of the world where company is always welcome. I live in one of the busiest places in the world and the last thing i want to do when i get back home is to entertain company or surprise visits who happen to be around the neighbourhood.
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@successlog (3172)
• China
14 Jul 08
hi friend,i think family/house means a quiet and comfortable place to relax when we finish our work in company.I think people should not take the work in their houses.Because houses are not suitable places to deal with our work.people should have a good rest in their house.no work, no busy calls.It is my opinion.lol
Good luck ,my friend.
@jhartana (1084)
• Australia
14 Jul 08
My home is usually quiet and was situated in quiet neighborhood too. Some friends do come visit us but only from time to time. Only me and my wife living on our house so we prefer quiet environment but it does not mean that we don't talk each other. We just like to live here, far from busy workplace.
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@ESKARENA1 (18260)
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13 Jul 08
at times it can be both quiet and very very busy, i guess it depends on what we are all up to
blessed be
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@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
13 Jul 08
My house is not very busy my grand mother visits our house once in a month and I love to spend some time with her otherwise my mom , my grandpa and my in laws also visits twice in 6 months but we will be longing to see them, most of the time me , my hub and my two daughters will be alone at home, but we dont feel lonely because we all will relax , enjoy for ourself and some times freak out ...
@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
14 Jul 08
It depends on what time of the week it is around our house. In my house its my grandmother, grandfather, my two children, and me. During the week that is mostly who is here. Not too many people come by, except for my mom, and that's either to get the new video I got from Netflix, or to pick something up from her mom.
The weekend its another story, especially in the last month. At first, it was guaranteed that my mom would come and stay the weekend. Now my brother Deron comes over as well, plus my grandma's friend from work. She usually doesn't stay overnight, but she will sometimes.
This Friday was a really crowded day. My mom got off early from work and got my brother Deron. My friend from my old building came over after me begging her to for months on end. (Its not that she doesn't like coming over, she doesn't have a car, so she has to catch the bus. There is a mile's walk from the nearest bus stop to my house) My grandma was going to go to a fish fry with her friend, but the person that was throwing it got lazy and didn't do a thing, so her and the friend came back to the house. My little ex-boy toy (the break-up was Saturday) came over to drop me something off, and stayed a while. He left and came back with his brother. So altogether at one time there was eight people in the house!!! We usually don't hit those type numbers until there is a holiday!!!
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@slickcut (8140)
• United States
15 Jul 08
Its usually enough going on when you have 2 children.Sounds like you have just the right amount of company without being awomped with guests..haha..I like some activity but not constantly..I also like to have time to watch a movie sometimes...
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@CoffeeAnyone (3210)
• Canada
14 Jul 08
My home use to be like that until a few years ago when I moved away. I still had company in small doses where I moved but nothing to the extend that it was. I think I have more of a balance in my life now. I have given this much thought in the past few years and I think if I had my time to do over again I would not of allowed my home to become so busy as it was with people coming and going and the phone ringing all the time. At the time I saw it as unconditional open door policy with friendships and such. Looking back I can see how this type of life robbed me and my family of more quality family time. I didn't see it at the time but now I see how important it is to have your home as a place of refuge for your family. My children should of been able to come home from school and just have mommy all to them selves so they could talk to her and ask her questions if they wanted to or simply just sit on their own couch and veg out. My husband should of been able to come home for dinner and have down time in a quiet home. I didn't see that then but I see that now. Sure it doesn't mean every day had to be that way but my life was out of balance there was always someone there for a visit. I was not taught to understand these things growing up but through the years observing others being different then me and asking questions and someone point blank telling me what they thought one time. I finally learnt. Now my family is all grown up. It is just my husband and I here. My house is not busy with people all the time but close friends will stop by when they can. We also plan get togethers. We all live a distance away so it doesn't happened regular and it is nice. I still often think about my busy home years ago and really I enjoyed it but I wish I were wise enough to bring balance and some structure into it for my family sake.
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@my52cents (569)
• United States
13 Jul 08
We're home-bodies and sometimes I feel like we're hermits. Our home is very quiet except for the phone, and mostly the phone calls are from our kids so we're not complaining about that. I like the peace and quiet, but sometimes I think we're too far on that end of the scale.
@slickcut (8140)
• United States
15 Jul 08
I enjoy being home but we do go out to eat,to walmart and some visiting ,but we have family we visit and some friends but we do spend a lot of time at home,but i do not feel like a hermit,but its not bad to be one..Some people are just home bodies and as long as you are happy thats all that matters...
@4ofmyown (1119)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Our house is always busy!!! We have 4 children that live with us full time and my 2 step children are here every other weekend. I try and bring my Mom over as much as possible because she lives alone and enjoys seeing the kids. There are sometimes when I feel overwhelmed but I would never change it. I feel very blessed to have so much love around us all the time.
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@AlephWren (135)
• Argentina
13 Jul 08
I can relax the day.... Specially in weekends, ahhhh.... Very nice. We can sit and see a movie or go outside for a walk. But usually we use the weekends for cleaning-the-house-up purpuoses, so...
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
13 Jul 08
I have one friend who visits all the time and is mostly welcome but can also be a real pain as he doesn't know when to leave again and tends to hang around. There are not enough hours in the day for me and I've been known not to answer the phone. I don't encourage visitors either. I like to visit my Dad because we are alike and it's comfy for us to be in the same room with out feeling we have to be incessantly chattering at each other. I see him every 3 months. I find that most people bore me to tears, have no real conversation and nothing to do with their time.
It's just my animals and I therefore at our place mostly and that can be busy enough.
@slickcut (8140)
• United States
15 Jul 08
i had a friend like this too..She is a long standing friend but she came all times of the day and night ,mostly night around 10:00 - 11:00 PM and would want to stay until 2 or 3 oclock in the morning,she did this like every night..My husband did not like it but i could not discourage her because she would get mad....Finally she got upset with my husband because he ask her to move her car,because she had been parking it in our yard for one whole year,anyway she got mad at him and now she is not speaking to me any longer...Oh well we have more peace....
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@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Our home is usually pretty quiet except
for the noise that our daughter makes.
She is an only child and makes enough
sound so that it always seems that we
have more than one child!
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@Lightlord (378)
• Sweden
13 Jul 08
Most of the time it's quiet, especially when I am alone and everyone is at work. But we do often have some neighbours or friends dropping by so after work time sometimes it's quite crowded.
And also like today everyone is packing their stuff cuz we are going on a vacation tomorrow. I am all ready though...
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@penny64 (1106)
• Australia
13 Jul 08
I hate it when people drop in to visit. In this age of mobile/cell phones, there is no reason not to give a bit of notice. It seems to me that people who drop in are assuming that they are much more important than anything you might have been doing or intending to do. I'm always doing some project or another, and I don't like the interruption. I'm not a tidy person when I'm working either! I'll ignore the front door and the phone if I'm busy doing something or I don't feel like company. Otherwise, I'm a very social person. I just like it to be planned! I would never, ever drop in on someone unannounced.
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@chej18 (915)
• United States
13 Jul 08
I am the person who like privacy and sit in the sofa watching movie,i like quiet place.But since i have my partner he is ougoing person and his mother alway go to our house.And if he is free at work always busy here,telephone somebody is passing by..And in the weekend sometimes my friend sleep over here to spend the weekend.
If somebody stay us at home or somebody pass by i feel like i cannot realax.I cant do what ever i want to do even its a our home.
Its not that i am not comfortable being around w/ my mother in law and my friends but it just this kind of feelings that you cant do things.
I cant even sit in my own sofa and i am worried everytime if they are alright.If they like to stay w/ us.If they like the food..If they can sleep very good.
Sometimes i find my self asking my partner to tell to her mother if its possible if she is not passing by today coz i want to sleep until late...hahahah..
Anyway have a nive day...Enjoy your day...TC
Greetings from Che!
@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
13 Jul 08
Where I am currently at is quiet. I am staying with my parents temporarily, and they rarely have company.
However, I prefer a busier house. I like to have people coming and going frequently. Well, let me amend that; I like to have friends coming and going frequently.
@slickcut (8140)
• United States
13 Jul 08
It gets boring if things are to quite,but i also enjoy my friends coming over too..and i enjoy going shopping and going to eat out and i do that quite often...When i visited my sister she had so many people in and out that she had no time..I do enjoy comapany and being around my friends but all day every day and the phone ringing all day long keeps me from getting anything done...













