Is Love Really Blind??

Love is Blind - Blind Love.
@Soniasony (1827)
India
July 13, 2008 7:50am CST
I always thought this phrase would be aplicable in peoms plays or movie, But recently this happened to one of my best friends. She was engaged to a guy a year back and they were supposed to marry last month.They moved about understanding each other for almost one year .But unfortunately 3months back she met with a tragic accident and lost her legs, so the whole world of hers came to an end..Relatives of that guy almost lost touch with her .But one thing I could never forget is that guy never gave up on her, He married the girl on the same day schduled for their and gave her a new life..This was like a cinematic incidence for me..It was heart provoking.Then I felt love still survives.
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@amirev777 (4117)
• India
13 Jul 08
hi sonia i thought that such things only happen in movies,i think there are some hindi movies,where they have depicted such stories,i dont remember them,but i must admit that it is not something one will get to see in real life,i must really appreciate ur friend's guy-he's really done a commendable deed-how many of us wud have one such a thing?very few i guess.most of us wud have just turned away.i knw there's an old hindi movie featuring Shekar Suman,in which the heroine loses her legs and her fiancee turns her down,but she manages to put on artificial legs and goes on to become a top dancer.
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
Yes Iam aware of that movie..But everyone was shocked to his behavoiur being like a film..Thanks for your concerns.
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@taface412 (3175)
• United States
13 Jul 08
I originally thought when I read the topic title this was going to be about a guy leaving a girl....No love is not blind in this case...love is realistic. and this is a beuatiful example of what lvoe really is and should continue to be. I am happy your friend has found her soul mate.
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
By meaning that Love is Blind , I meant Love doesnot see any discreencies or weakness..Love only sees love..Anyway Iam hapy for her and thanks for your response..
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@vampoet (825)
• Singapore
13 Jul 08
love means different things to different people. marriages are not always the end product of love. it could be the end product of coincidence or arranged. then i knw peopl who randomly meet online and fall in love and have this online relationship which really gets to nowhere. i also know people engaged in long distance relationships. i mean, what is the point of being in a relationship if yuou cant see the person at least once a week?
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
I do agree with you that marriage is not the end product of love , but it surely is a means for love..Any way thanks for the response.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
13 Jul 08
Dear friend, They are really lucky persons to get perfect love like that. But one my recently is at the verge of divorce. He loved a girl and got married and one day she too their 1 month old baby and started staying at her parents home. When my friend who is father of that girl child enquired why she is not coming to live with him the girl told she do not her child to be more close with her father and her parents next day give a complaint to police that my friend has manhandled their daughter and police called his to station but the when the police enquired it came out to be a cooked up story from the girls part. Now she is either not coming the my friend is not able to see his daughter and now he has filed a case in family court for divorce and the girl has countered it with a huge amount and a big part of the property of him. Another part is that the girl has taken all the belonging when she left the home. I really feel pity for him as we know him well that he such a innocent and decent boy. His parents too are worried and his mother is a cancer patient too. This should never happened to him this marriage was finally just to loot my friend. I hope love has both side the bitter side is the worst part in one's life.
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
I am really sorry for that person..You are right he is a decent person, I think there is a intension on the part of that girl, may be she was pretending to love him..Let god bless them and thank you for your concern..
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• India
14 Jul 08
this is not about love being blind this is about true love when u trully love someone u do not care whether he is black or white u do not care if he or she belongs to your religion or not .....
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
14 Jul 08
Yes love is truly boundless..thanks for the response..
• United States
13 Jul 08
There are different types of love. Conditional and unconditional. Some people love you only when you are in a good place. That kind of love doesn't last. In this case, it is obviously not conditional. For he looked past her physical realm and still loved her dearly in order to still want to marry her. I love when people have real love for each other. It seems like this relationship is going to last.
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
Thats what I meant before starting this discussion..and the very instension of this discussion is to convey what you feel about this love..thanks for the response.
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@sunita64 (6469)
• India
13 Jul 08
It is such an inspiring incidence and it is good that share with us as it is very common nowadays to listen about betrayals and frauds in love, so if some positive incidence happens then it looks like a miracle. But one thing is sure that love is still there in this world though it is rare.
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
I do agree with you friend, these incidents have become real miracle these days but love always wins ..Thanks for the response.
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
13 Jul 08
Love is the graetest thing that can happen to anyone and hearing this story you narrated here will amke anyone cry and it's heartning to knwo such stories isn't ti? it's also nice to have such kind of people around and also such stories running around is very good and we can only hope for the world to be like that.Thanks for giving out this nice story
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
If it was just a story i would have just enjoyed , but Iam really excited because it has happened to one of our closest.It could inspire many.Thanks for response.
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@smartx (319)
• India
13 Jul 08
This is really a last thing I can expect.Hats off to the guy , He's a man.I guess in past one year he would have promised not to leave her so he has kept up his words or his love for her never ended.Tell my best wishes to the couples.
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
Oh you feel he has kept his word for her, But I feel this is something more than that...It could be true love, anyway thanks for response.
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@alpha7 (1910)
• France
13 Jul 08
If you are still in the club of people saying 'love is blind',well just get married and your eyes will be opened. LOVE IS BLIND,MARRIAGE WILL OPEN YOUR EYES. When you get married to a Man who work very hard during the day and come back expecting his food on the table and you're still saying i love you,you might be surpise to hear his reply. Or a woman who expect's you to supply all her needs and you are saying I love you without doing this,you might be shock!
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
Yeah thats a very practical scenario , but i have to say who knows he may be loving you but could not express..we need to understand the people thats what i feel..anywya thanks for the response..
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@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
13 Jul 08
that is what love is all about. i think love really blind.. is more like a girl meet guy. guy is jerk and abuse her in every way. but girl to dumb to leave guy.
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
I think it could be to a broader sense , must be you are expressing your concern .Thanks for replying.
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• Egypt
13 Jul 08
i think yes the love is blind i heard a joke be for say(once a time kid asked his father is the love blind ?the dad answer "look at your mother and you will know that) i wish you liked that joke
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
Haha LOL..thats a good joke..Yes but what brings them together is agin love..Thanks for the response..
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• Malaysia
13 Jul 08
not love blind. is people who is in love make themself blind
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
Thats hilarious. Thanks for response.
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14 Jul 08
love is really blind but fact is true when u have chosen ur partner opening ur wide virtual eyes,.....love cannot be blind from the initial stage but its only feelings due to attraction . one has to know one in abetter way and then love her/him blindly ...that's love ......suvrajit sponsor:want to earn 300$ or more /month....free no investment just logon to www.freewebs.com/cashpond and register all the links...refer and veiw and earn...logon to www.freewebs.com/cashpond Any queries call :+91- or 09230558385
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
14 Jul 08
Thats so practical but true fact about love ..anyway thanks for the response..
• India
14 Jul 08
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• Serbia And Montenegro
14 Jul 08
ok.I thank you.As you can see there is still few of as who belive in love. ;-)
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
15 Jul 08
Yes I should say there are many who believe and a few knows it ..Thanks for the response..
• Serbia And Montenegro
14 Jul 08
No!Love is not blinde.After 14 years i still love my wife,maybe even more then first day.
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
14 Jul 08
Sorry for my interpretation of blind in love..I meant in the other way..Thanks for the response..
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
[b]Their love story is one of a kind. He really love her that much. Having a handicaf wife or husband is a difficult situation. I'm just hoping that he really marry her because of love. I don't want to think that he marry her out of pity. Becasue if that really is the reason. Their relationship wont last long. I give them my best wishes.[/b]
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
17 Jul 08
But my heart says he wouldn't have married her for sympathy ..anyway thanks for the wishes.
@kittenmc (464)
• United States
14 Jul 08
Yes, I do believe it is! It can for the good, as the wonderful example you gave or it can be for the bad. You can love someone so much, that you can't see that wrong. Thank you for sharing about your friend.
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
14 Jul 08
Yes after all its life things cant be certain..anyway thanks for the response..
• India
14 Jul 08
In these days it's rare to see this blind love, really that boy had done excellant work, he proved the relation of real love effections, she is very lucky for got nice boy as a life partner, god bless them and I personally selute both of lovers.
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
14 Jul 08
Thanks for compliments to that guy he is a man truly...Of records I appreciate your concern to keep mylot a clean place..Thanks for the true mylot spirit..
@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 08
Yup,love is blind.When you love a person,you will accept whatever personality he got.No matter good or bad,in your eye he/she is always perfect.If you love him/she even more,you can even hear other people comment how bad he/she is in front of you.Whatever he/she say, you will belive without doubting which cause many people being cheated by the person they love.
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
13 Jul 08
Yes thats a valid point..we believe even if others tell wrong about , we just trust them..Thanks fo rthe response.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
4 Aug 08
Hey I give u the best answer.....love is really blind .......if u r into love u can be into deep trouble soon....love makes u love to die for just comfort of someone u love.....love makes u to die for just few glimpse of someone u love love makes u to do anything and everything whom u love........I can give u true symptom of love .....love makes u feel as if u r a fish out of water .......dying for someone whos not aware about your internal condition...... And only GOD can put a stop to storm of ur love since ...and no one can else........ Lord krishna is greates GOD Of Love ....... Congratulation u being no 2 in Love ....discussion....u look really cute... Thanku & Love Hare Krishna !!!! Ganesh