how to make him stay until the end?
July 13, 2008 8:22am CST
Well, i love someone for years and we have no formal commitment because we are afraid to ruin the whole thing between us. We love each other company, we enjoyed every single day we spent together. But yesterday, he told me he is leaving. And ask him why but his answer goes like this, "I don't think i'm making you happy".. It hurts but i stay silent and we part ways not saying a word. I cried all nightt and then 5 am in the morning. He called me and he was so sorry about what happen last night. I forgive him because I love him. But what bother me the most is "when he finally decide to leave me".. What will I do now to make him stay? Help m. Thank you.
14 Jul 08
Hello there, it is a tough question as there is no way to make your boy friend stay if he doesn’t want to. Even for a marriage couple, the rings and the marriage certificate cannot tie anyone forever if one of the spouses wants to leave or end the marriage. I don’t mean I want to discourage or disappoint you, I just tell you the true. So if I am in your situation, I will prepare myself and be ready the date my boyfriend leaves me. Alternatively, I may make up my mind to leave him to find someone who will stay with me forever.
• United States
13 Jul 08
No, you should only want him to stay if he wants too! It seems he's not too happy! And why dont you commit? Ruin what whole thing between you? The relationship! You need to read hes just not that into you! And realize you are worth committing too!