what would you do if you found your partner in your bed with your best friend?

United States
July 13, 2008 8:47pm CST
I am courious how people would react if you came back home early and found your your partner/Lover in bed with your best friend? You walked right in on them while they were going at it . Would you spit fire right there and then or would you wait untill everything was said and done? Has this happend to anyone care to share what you did or what you think you would do ?
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• United States
14 Jul 08
After my initial shock, I'm completely torn about what I would do. I'm not sure if I'd grab one of them or the both of them and toss them out of my house naked, or wait until they finish, pack up my partners stuff and tell them to hit the road, not to mention kick my friend out of the house. That's very disrespectful and very dirty. If you want to sleep with someone else, just end the relationship, spare me the drama and do what you want. Don't go behind my back cause I'm liable to make your life a living heck.
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• United States
14 Jul 08
you sound like one class act .. I like your style:)
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• United States
14 Jul 08
Well thank you. In my opinion, it's really not worth all the drama and all the fighting if they really want to go off and sleep with other people without telling you. It'll probably just happen again anyway. So I'd like to cause them as much embarrassment as possible before I completely get rid of them. It's no skin off my back.
• United States
16 Jul 08
I agree it's not worth the trouble.. I would not waste my breath on them .. as I said I like your style :)
@rbailey83 (1400)
• Canada
14 Jul 08
i would probably make some sarcastic comment, tell her to start packing her bags and leave and go do something until i calmed down enough to come back home. i would just never talk to that friend again, wouldn't be worth my time
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• United States
14 Jul 08
your right .. and that would not be a true friend who would do something like that either
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@rbailey83 (1400)
• Canada
14 Jul 08
nope, and i would rather find out about that person sooner than later, nobody needs someone like that in their life, both the significant other and the best friend, better off without them
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• United States
14 Jul 08
OH I agree with you 100%... I always told my husband .. if I ever cought him with someone ( never mind a friend ) I would take that person out for a drink and say .. gee he was good huh .. oh well next LOL ( just my sick humor here )
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@rlawliet (141)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
although i haven't experience it.. its logical to do this... kill them.. hehe.. =)
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• United States
14 Jul 08
LOL really ? would you do it on the spot? or wait untill they were done ?
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@donsky14 (5961)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
lol. agree.
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@rlawliet (141)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
there's no point in waiting for them to be done.. they shocked you, so shock them also.. haha.. =)
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• United States
14 Jul 08
There would definitely be some spitting of fire and throwing of objects-- followed by a call to a divorce attorney.
• United States
14 Jul 08
flying sticks.. spitting fire.. .. a pan upside the head .. hummm
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@donsky14 (5961)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
waaah I'm really gonna throw the first thing that I could grab. I don't care if its a vase, a chair, a mirror...whatever. I'm gonna throw anything to them...first one that I grab. Or better...throw water on them. lol.
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• United States
14 Jul 08
I would raise h e double hockey sticks right there. I would so not wait until they were done. Now if they told me up front that they were interested in each other i might of allowed it but to do it behind my back i would be ticked.
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@metschica25 (5405)
• United States
14 Jul 08
I would be in such shock because they both mean the world to me , and I trust them with my life . Well , I would feel like I lost everything . truth be told I would just walk away and not listen to anything they had to say . I would drain the bank account and move far far away , and morn and then move on . F them both !! ya know , you dont need that . Think it would be hard for me to ever trust again .
• United States
15 Jul 08
yes it would be hard to trust again.. but you would some day .. drain the bank account I love it !!!!
14 Jul 08
Hi there, oh my goodddd dont get me started, this is a sight I would never want to see. It has never happened to me , yet..... Firstly I wouldnt care if it was my friend or not, I would go absolutely crazy there and then, I would probly beat him until I could go anymore.... bad I know but its gotta be done, im not one of those people who would just walk out and leave, they should pay for what they have done in my opinion. Ask for my parter/lover, I dont know what i would do with her, I guess I would argue with her and throw her out on the street naked with her belongings scattered accross the road. Yes thats my plan if it ever happens lol. What about you lol? cheers
• United States
14 Jul 08
If it happened to me would I be mad .. heck yea.. I don't think I would let them finish .. I would walk stright into the room sit at the edge of the bed and just stare.. I am one of those people who belive silence is your best weapon. It makes people wonder. But naturally I would not let them see the cast iron frying pan I was holding behind my back LOL