Will you keep loving someone who will never be yours?

Philippines
July 13, 2008 11:42pm CST
I will but in a different way. I`ll just let myself find and explore somebody that is really meant for me.
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15 responses
@rlawliet (141)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
if its not meant to be.. it will never be... =) sometimes, we need to accept this fact even if it tears us apart.. =)
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@mEisky (825)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
nice..though its sad for me..very well said..:)
@magojordan (3254)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
No because there might be someone who is really better and would return the same love as you give.
@mEisky (825)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
yeah right..much better if its fair to give out all your love to the one who really deserves it..
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
No. To do so entails a lot of pain and desperation. As the saying goes "If you really love the person, set him free". It may be hurtful, but to love purely does'nt mean that you have to be unhappy.
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@anyul2 (7)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 08
yes, I will but it just in my heart. outside, I'll try to let him go from my mind n find somebody new who really love me.
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@successlog (3172)
• China
14 Jul 08
hello friend,I think we should understand one world:If you really her, you should let her happy.This is the best way you show your love to someone.If i love a girl but the girl love another man,i will bless them both.And i will give her a favor anytime in the future if she want.I think this is the real love.of course,maybe there is also some girl love really,so we should know this is precious.we should cherish her well.lol Good luck
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
Love has different levels or stages. I have been in love many times and some of them I still keep in the deepest part of my heart. Some of them got married, some walked away, and some did forget that I met them. Most of them were my friends, a very close friends. That is why I can not keep myself not loving them continuously even though we already have our own lives. I agree with you that we can still love them in a different way, by showing our concerns and cares when the time obliged us to show it. It does not also mean that we are forgetting our own happiness by sticking to the person we love. As what you have said, we have to explore our immediate surrounding because for sure, someone is there waiting for you. Cheers!
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@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
Yes, I will still love him even though I know that it is impossible for us to be together.. But of course, I will not let myself to be focus on him forever, I will also try to love other people that can love me and that is meant for me.. I will not focus my heart and mind to him... Maybe,I will use my love or feeling for him to find someone who is better and can love me more that I love him.. I know it sounds selfish but, I don't know..
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@subha12 (18452)
• India
14 Jul 08
it is something that i think one should avoid. i know its not very easy when you really fall in love knowing also that person can't be yours. but it will be waste of time.
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@xanezhy (19)
18 Jul 08
no way. though its kinda hurting. but maybe there is someone out there more deserving and will love me also :)
@msedge (4012)
• United States
15 Jul 08
If i will know that the person will not going to be mine i would try to stop loving him even it hurts and move on.Just my idea.I am happily married now.
@zeroflashx2 (2489)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
At that particular instance, it would be better to love yourself more. You could just be friends and it could even be better than being lovers. Plus, giving away a lot of things will most probably hurt especially when it isn't being appreciated. Sad thing is, we can always give but we should not expect anything back. Doing so will destroy us in the long run and will make it a lot tougher to move on from. From that, being in love is giving a part or a huge part of yourself. It some times can be considered a risk since you may lose time and other aspects of your life can be slightly sacrificed such as family, friends, work, school, etc. In our own time, we'll find that special someone that is for keeps and would really love you who you are and without expecting too much from you. It always knocks on your front door, it's up to you to open it or not. Take care!
@nsujin (91)
• India
15 Jul 08
god will find someone for you..
• India
15 Jul 08
Look dear its hard to say that you will find some1 else. but if the formar had been a true love then even if you find now some else still you wont forget the previous love.It cant happen,not just for you but for everyone ,that i can bet upon...!!!
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
No way what for I just won't waste my time and effort even I like her so much. I will rather have my own girlfriend. I still believe in commitment. There's a saying that if you don't want other's to do unto you don't do no harm. I believe in karma! Have a nice day!
@mEisky (825)
• Philippines
14 Jul 08
well.,ive already felt it that way.,although my friends keep on telling me not to do it..hmm.i dunno,.i just wanted to continue loving him from the fact that i know it's hard for me to believe he's gonna be back soon..But there were also times that i dont feel that way..haha